Good thing-I feel like I’m starting all over.Time to do things right.
Bad things-Sure there a lot of beautiful girls but none of them are you.None of them have your eyes,none of them have you voice.I thought my first love had a beautiful voice but then I heard you and now sometimes before I go to sleep I hear the voicemails you left me just to hear you.I have yet to meet a girl that’s like you.You were everything I looked In a girl and more.I’m not young anymore.I want to settle down.I could honestly see myself settling down her.She used to always worry about her taking opportunitys for me when she didn’t realize Is that all I wanted was her.What she didn’t realize Is that when she left,she took my heart & happiness.
life feels so empty without her.I wonder how people feel numb??All I feel Is pain.
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Just find another one. Women are a dime a dozen. lol
Just dont get one like what I had for a wife.
can relate to you lifeishorrible… when that special one walks away you feel like nothing will ever be the same and that you can never find another person that makes you feel like she did… and maybe no one will, because all relationships are different, but that doesnt mean you cant feel love again even if its not the same… maybe it wont be better or worse, just different. Just dont give up hope all together, you might still find someone not to replace her, but to fill that void most of us feel inside when we are all alone.
@WIG
Ew, not only is that misogynistic and offensive, but that’s terribly insensitive.
@OP
I found this tragically beautiful, I really do know what you mean when you describe this longing for a unique individual that none can compare to. Give yourself time to acknowledge and explore the past and come to a place where you can accept what has happened. I can’t tell you to move on, that would be hypocritical of me and moving on entirely is something that’s impossible in cases like this when a person has deeply imprinted themselves on you and every aspect of your life. Learning to acknowledge your love for them but not letting it dominate or significantly influence your life is tough, but it’s a place you should strive to eventually come to if you hope to function and enhance your life at some point in the future. Give yourself time to grieve, I can’t stress that enough. It’s so hard not to blame yourself in cases like this. If what happened is the direct consequence of an action that you took, it doesn’t necessarily make it your fault. Perhaps they interpreted it wrong, perhaps they reacted in a way that wasn’t how you intended for them to react, it doesn’t make it your fault.
Delve into the details of what has happened and learn from it rather than deny or punish yourself for it. Use this experience constructively and you may do even better the next time something like this comes around. Not meaning to contradict your love for this unique person that you feel will perennially obstruct you from loving another, I know how it feels. When something tragic and heartbreaking like that happens a part of you really does die inside and it hurts to hell and back. Although that part isn’t coming back, a new place in your heart will grow, which will not replace her or substitute for her, but allow for you to experience a whole new flavor of love entirely. I hope you the best (hugs)
Its true though.
I mean…..
When it comes down to it…. its all about continuing the species, and why we seek a suitable mate.
@WIG
If women are a dime a dozen then you’re as valuable as a piece of shit: something that everyone pays to get rid of.
@WIG: Now.. that sounded like objectifying women (the dime a dozen comment)… it’s fine if you think they are dime a dozen but it does sound rather harsh and disrespectful to say it… specially in a post like this
MrBaDGuy, I am not here to find a mate to continue the species. I am here to assist you on forgiving your wife. As very painful as it is. I know you will unlock your full potential in this world when that day comes. Just think the positive assistance you could render to troubled souls that are in similar situations that you have experienced. You can do it my friend
The ultimate goal of life is to find a mate to continue the species 🙂
your comment has been noted,,,,,,,, and flushed. (gurgle gurgle) 😉
MrBaDGuy, it seems that may be an ultimate goal for some. However connecting on a spiritual, mental and physical level while walking hand in hand to meet the challenges the world offers could be an ultimate goal for some
lifeishorrible ,
I like your handle! so true! all I can say is nobody took anything from you! you still have it 🙂 it’s there and another is waiting for it!!!! so……………. go out find that person and give it to them!!! that’s life keep on searching!!!! your world may just be beginning it you want it too! 🙂
biologically, that is what life is about.
“The ultimate goal of life is to find a mate to continue the species” is somewhat misleading. The theory of evolution may give some light to why a species has certain feats or why an animal acts in a certain way, but it does not set any goals. It’s just that animals that survive and reproduce, are more likely to exist. When you shake a box containing sand and rocks, the rocks tend to go to the bottom. It’s not a goal of the rock to do so, it’s just something that happens D;.
Now humans have goals, and some of those goals may indeed be what they are “because of evolution”, but this shouldn’t be relevant from the point of view of an individual. Feelings and principal values should have the same importance regardless of why they are what they are. Naturally they yield from somewhere, but ultimately it doesn’t matter where, be it evolution, God, or quantum physics.
I just said that to initiate conversation 🙂
@Elcyc: Me likes you. You sense make. You with the words organized in good way to logics are.