I think I’m finally going to do it. Been depressed for too long. I’m 31 year old gorgeous woman with no kids but it doesn’t seem to matter. Every guy I date leaves me for some reason. The last guy I went out with left me because I’m a bartender for a living. Even though I make great money he doesn’t think I have a future. I’m sick of seeing all my friends getting engaged. I’m sick of everyone moving forward with their lives but me. I feel like a worthless loser who will be alone forever. I’m too depressed to try to change it. Please don’t say all the cliche things like you’ll find him someday when your not looking or you just haven’t found the right one yet. I’ve heard it all a million times. Should I just go through with swallowing pills with booze tonight? I cant take being alone no more.
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If that guy left you it’s because he’s a money driven idiot, and i don’t think you’d want that in the long run (money is important tho, i won’t argue that, but it’s not the only thing in life). You are not alone on this tho… plenty of people are past 30 and still alone, and it happens to gorgeous, average, below average people, wether they are rich, poor, well… you get the drill. Won’t say the cliche things you don’t want to hear, but you said them yourself already, lol. At least you know your worth, and that’s good. Pills + booze tho? not a good idea unless you just want a trip to ER.
^keief speaketh the truth.
I have a friend (aged 26) in the very same situation as you at the moment. She is also very good looking and driven passionately about what she loves in her life and has the strongest morals I have yet encountered. At this time…*sigh* I’m truly doing my best to keep her here and at least have her talk with me because, like you, she has so much more to offer than what is offered at face value. I will avoid any sleazy clichés, know that you are not the only one experiencing this and if you need to talk or any help at all, we’re here.
31 isnt 41. Im trying to say to say dont think of your situtation as a prison sentence. You have more power than you think. I dont know your history, but keep thinking out of the box. Id be happy to give you ideas to talk further.
I’ll be 30 in a couple of weeks and I’m upset because I can’t find a girl who wants to go live in a cave in Nepal with me. Actually, not so much, but I am upset that it’s so fucking expensive to get to Nepal so I can live in a cave. Money is evil.
No, Don’t. Don’t because you have true value.
Yea you heard it many times.
But the good folks finish last, or not at all.
I fully empathaize with your pain, but mine was caused by something different. I was married 14 years to a woman I treated like a queen, everyone saw what I did for her.
How would you like to find out your wife set up a profile on a dating site, had 3 somes, brought home STD’s, and slept with as many guys as she could.
Well, thats what I experienced. And at one point, I tried to end it all, only to be saved.
I’ll be your friend if you like.
Write me sometimes….. FLWaterguy66 (at) gmail (dot) com.
My point being, there are a lot of guys and women looking for someone who isn’t like the rest.
But you must first realize your own worth, and I know its not easy to do, coz I have been there, and done that, and still do at times.
And those times are hard.
Sorry, FLWaterguy99 (at) gmail (dot) com.
I gave you the wrong addy in the other post.
Use this one.
I am 34, all my friends are having kids and getting married. Don’t compare your life to others. It just is. No need to rush anything. Don’t ever want anything so bad that you are held hostage by that want. There is plenty in life to enjoy
Hey lora thanks for sharing your story. What do you think? What is it that holds you back from getting a significant other? Rotten luck? Or something else? Maybe you can figure it out if you run through your memories.
So, what will you do next lora?
Hey lora thanks for sharing your story. What do you think? What is it that holds you back from getting a significant other? Rotten luck? Or something else? Maybe you can figure it out if you run through your memories. So, what will you do next lora?
lora,
31 year old gorgeous woman with no kids !!!! a dream come true!!!! 🙂 sweetie I don’t have the answer 🙁 I’ve been though the mill myself, I really am beside myself, I was once a romantic but now I’m not, life is a bunch of crap.
sounds like a pickup line to me 😉
There are worse things than loneliness. I ve said it before. Actually it s a quote. Not mine..