You keep saying that you want a relationship with me and Jordi, but the thing is you ruined your relationship with us when you put Jodie before us.
You say that it kills you to not have a relationship with us but how do you think it makes us feel to know that we never have/ will be Daddy’s little princess.
You once said you would do anything for us, but you forget that it was your decision to marry her that made it that you lost us.
If you didn’t let her keep trying to weave her way into our relationship then you might have a relationship with us right now. Even though there will never be a chance of the same trust, love and feelings that there once was at least we would have a Dad and you would have your daughters.
You keep having your family try and make Jordi feel bad and responsible for the fact that we don’t have a relationship, when it’s actually her! The one that you married after she broke up your and mums marriage, our relationship. I wonder if you realise that if you didn’t let her try to force herself onto us then we could see each other and have lunches together etc.
I want to know Daddy, do you realise how hard it is for me Jordi? To know that we will never had a Dad who when our first bf comes to pick us up for a date, will try to intimidate him to make sure they will be scared to hurt us? A dad who will be there to hug us and tell us we don’t need boys when we have our first heartbreak? A Dad will be there at our wedding to walk us down the isle to give us away? Me and Jordi will never be Daddy’s little girls!
You say you’re hurting! Well what about us?! We’ve been hurting ever since that night we found out that you were out with Jodie instead of home with us!
You didn’t only break mums heart that night Daddy, you broke ours as well.
I’m to scared to fall for a guy because I don’t believe i’d ever be able to trust a guy with my heart when I can’t even trust my Dad.
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I relate from a male’s perspective. My own father was never really there for me, either in prison or passed out in front of the local pub. He was a humble man nonetheless, who’s life was taken far too soon. I understand the agony you must be going through, for your father to disregard you and your sibling. As stubborn as we males can be, I am hopeful your father will see the two angels he has in his life already, and see that he does not need to add to the collection by including some self absorbed, family destroying harlot. I hope he comes to his senses soon, we all need men in our lives. But if not; I am confident you will be an independent and totally strong person on your own and in support of your sibling/family.
Stay safe out there.
I’m sorry your Dad cheated – that’s fucked up.
But, it sounds like – I might be wrong – the he still loves you and your siblings? If that’s the case, maybe it’s worth trying to talk to him. Especially if you miss him.
You may not be able to forget or forgive — but I think you can let him (slowly) back into your life. And, hey, if you give him a chance and he’s untrustworthy again, then you know.
he doesnt.. he threatened to run us over
Dear girl,
Regardless of how much all little girls and boys want it, their parents are not perfect human beings. They have their flaws, and they do make mistakes. They also break up, divorce, and hurt their children in the process.
That doesn’t mean though that they love you any less. It only means that they tried to have the perfect happy little family but did not succeed.
Your dad broke with your mom, not you. One day you will understand that.. Try to accept him with his flaws. If you don’t want to see his new gf/wife, then simply tell him so.
As far as your first boyfriend goes, it’s better not to have your dad around for that. It’s only romantic in the movies.