Hey there Lime17, its been awhile since you been last on and I see your overbearing sister has left you rather angry?
I sympathize with you, and I wish I could have the words to help alleviate any aggression or feelings of hostility towards your sister. But don’t let her get to you and let if any anger or pain she has inflicted. The longer you hold it the more it will help.
I know its sounds unfair and she has no right to make you feel bad about herself but do it for yourself and well being. Find your happiness and peaces within yourself and let no one else take that away. You are who you are, you are of no comparison because no one can compare to you, and I mean that in a good way.
It is a shame she is rather ignorant and oblivious to your pain, even when the signs are obvious. She as you sister should have taken the initiative to have helped you and been someone you can confide in rather someone you despise. But maybe, maybe she is fearful. Maybe she feels inadequate in her ability to help you or maybe something or some insecurity is plaguing her.
It is a fine line Lime, it truly is. I would advise maybe sitting her down and having a real meaningful talk to get her to realize your pain and how her actions attribute more to your suffering but I fear she may disregard you as being dramatic or downplay your pain. And in no way do you deserve for any one to do that.
I only wish for the hope and advise that you don’t let her foolishness or lack of sympathy to affect you more. It is hard to ignore such hate but maybe its for the best and just shame her for her actions. Be better than her and only give love and compassion to everyone around you or interact with. Be there for people even though people were not there for you.
Good luck Lime and take care.
Oh and mind any typos or errors, I have a bit of problem with writing.
Koji, your writing was perfect in both grammar and meaning. Thank you for understanding. Everything you said definitely brought some sort of emotion to me. I will take everything you said into consideration. But as of having a meaningful talk with my sister, that may be difficult. We’ve never told each other anything personal. Every personal thing she knows about me, shes heard from my mom, not that i tell my mom much personal things. Once again thank you for your comment and wise words 🙂
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Hey there Lime17, its been awhile since you been last on and I see your overbearing sister has left you rather angry?
I sympathize with you, and I wish I could have the words to help alleviate any aggression or feelings of hostility towards your sister. But don’t let her get to you and let if any anger or pain she has inflicted. The longer you hold it the more it will help.
I know its sounds unfair and she has no right to make you feel bad about herself but do it for yourself and well being. Find your happiness and peaces within yourself and let no one else take that away. You are who you are, you are of no comparison because no one can compare to you, and I mean that in a good way.
It is a shame she is rather ignorant and oblivious to your pain, even when the signs are obvious. She as you sister should have taken the initiative to have helped you and been someone you can confide in rather someone you despise. But maybe, maybe she is fearful. Maybe she feels inadequate in her ability to help you or maybe something or some insecurity is plaguing her.
It is a fine line Lime, it truly is. I would advise maybe sitting her down and having a real meaningful talk to get her to realize your pain and how her actions attribute more to your suffering but I fear she may disregard you as being dramatic or downplay your pain. And in no way do you deserve for any one to do that.
I only wish for the hope and advise that you don’t let her foolishness or lack of sympathy to affect you more. It is hard to ignore such hate but maybe its for the best and just shame her for her actions. Be better than her and only give love and compassion to everyone around you or interact with. Be there for people even though people were not there for you.
Good luck Lime and take care.
Oh and mind any typos or errors, I have a bit of problem with writing.
Koji, your writing was perfect in both grammar and meaning. Thank you for understanding. Everything you said definitely brought some sort of emotion to me. I will take everything you said into consideration. But as of having a meaningful talk with my sister, that may be difficult. We’ve never told each other anything personal. Every personal thing she knows about me, shes heard from my mom, not that i tell my mom much personal things. Once again thank you for your comment and wise words 🙂