I have never understood the concept of this, and wonder if others ever found similar situations or speeches in incidents that should have never been told such bull shit lies or comments that could easily back fire in thier faces.
Great example, over a decade to almost twenty years ago, when I was still in high school and into college, I was constantly dealing with many issues, and not just the typical bullying at school, I’d have it at home too, and this was also when I was first molested and raped, and just too much for me to handle, one thing after another. Why do teachers, counselors and other authority figures in school settings think it’s a bright idea to mention, “these (aka high school or college) years will be the best years of your life!” Even after you tell them your suicidal, like it’s suppose to motivate you for a longer life?! What fucking idiot thought that was a good idea? What stops that teenager or young adult on thier graduation day, make a speech in front of their class say, ” thank you, so and so for letting me know, these are the best years of my life, and since that’s the case,” BAM! commit suicide for all to see so that that stupid message isn’t constantly speaded to other vulnerable individuals.
Sometimes I’m purely shocked by the ignorance of society and thier absurd arrogance to see it’s a problem.
They say ignorance is bliss, does that mean the miserable are geniuses? Is it because we are so sickened by the truth, and realize that no matter how smart we are, we have no way to change the outcome of that sick reality? It’s just too much to bare at times.
On a side note, I was influenced by a recent post, I think the name was Beautya? But didn’t feel this quite matched the same topic, but would like thank you for the reminder of this previous thought I’ve been wanting ask for a long time to people who might understand what I’m saying, or at least feeling on the matter. If the name is spelled wrong, sorry, it was difficult to see under the title, just let me know, and I’ll fix this in an edit.
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Weird, why doesn’t this post show up under my name? I Click my name and only my first post shows up. Sometimes I want to check new comments without logging in, what happens when this is no longer locate-able, and I can’t search by name, that’s a very odd set-up.
Omg! I know exactly what that’s like! The teacher thing, when they ask you stupid questions about your depression, and then try to turn it around, like those years are suppose to be fun and positive, but you just finished telling them all these horror stories about what happens when you are there, but they just ignore you and don’t care! Seriously, been there done that, it got to the point that I became mute for almost two years, my thought was, after a major trauma, if I’m not going to be heard, why am I even speaking?
Btw, we share a lot of similar backgrounds! I just want you to know, your npt alone. I too was raped during those years, my case it was my nephew, and he was openly accepted into the family after that, and I was disowned, or ignored. It’s just disgusting how this world is. I’m curious, what’s your situation on the one year experation date? Mine is basically 3 years, because of my disabilities after all the vehicle accidents and random crap I’ve been through.
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Just wanted you to know that I readed your post. I understand what you are saying. You are right. And thank you for the mention! I dont know what post you mean but im glad if it helped in any way. Take care! Hugs 😀