I am lizzy, a 32 years old woman.one month back, I had a good job.i was happy with my life and job.everything was fair and well, until a good looking guy joined my office on a high rank and started liking(?) me for no reason.most of my female colleagues ( married and unmarried)fell for him except me.when they found he was paying attention to me, they become furious and started to misbehave.
Last month i had to resign from my job for their grudge.i lost my job just because of him,inspite of being a prized employee.now i am jobless,tried many places but failed.that divorce awaiting guy now no where in the picture and not even in contact with me.his likings are all vanished.now everyday i experience intolerable misconducts from my parents for sitting at home and not getting married on time.life has become a curse for meme.I only find darkness around me.to get rid of my incomplete life,planning for suicide.previously tried many things to kill myself but failed.help me.
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I’m sorry you are going through a rough patch. 🙁 It is really scary to be without work and feel out of sync. You have to remember life is always changing. For the good too. It is hard to have a job blow up like this. You will find a job. It will be hard. One thing, look at your applications in a new light. Never say anything negative about the old companies. That means when you write why you left, don’t say a word about this conflict. Say as little as you need to. Say you wanted to explore new opportunities to use my skills (something you didn’t use at your old job) in _____ (that the new company needs).
Start by finding how to market yourself. Look up resume/ career books in the library. Make yourself priory one. If you feel frustrated, accept it, then remind yourself you are moving on as best you can and YOU WILL GET THERE.
I am struggling too. Trying to find a job even though I feel emotional stuck. HA Like peanut butter on the roof of my mouth stuck. But I will get unstuck!!
And you will too! Best wishes! 🙂
Thank you for your guidelines, but I don’t know how do I manage my household things…they are getting worse everyday.I feel like to leave home and stay away from all known faces..but it is not possible.