There is nothing worth seeing on the other side.. that is the misconception of death.
A lot of people believe that all their problems will be solved by ending their life here but it simply isn’t true.
Imagine.. all the mysteries in life still go unanswered. There is no pleasure.. there is no challenge.. there is no love.. there is no freedom.. there is nothing. And there is no chance to come back and complain about having nothing in the first place.
Some people take their life for granted at an early age and never really get that chance to learn and grow in this world. Most only perceive that life is full of hate and war and pain. But that simply isn’t true. For a lot of people..life can be so much more.
The experience of having a life in this existence is second to nothing. You only get this one chance to appreciate what you have and before you know it.. it’s all gone.
It’s very important to cherish the time you have left as a human being. We are unique to this universe in every way. No, we don’t have to be perfect..we don’t have to have superior understanding for all things or eachother. We are creatures of habit and confusion..and i can promise you that there is no existence more fulfilling than the will and desires that make up the human condition.
Sentient by nature and limited in our time here on this planet. Out of the primordial nothingness, we stand to be the greatest miracle life has to offer.
@RealTalk30 once there’s no curiosity left, no ambitions, it’s okay to leave. We all die anyway, if someone doesn’t enjoy life and sees nothing worth living for, miracle would be the last word they’d use to describe life. Sometimes there really is no point. If they ruin all their relationships, aren’t competent enough to study/ get a good job, spread nothing but negativity, why not? Why not get rid of the excess. Earth is overpopulated anyway, one person more or less. Tomorrow noone will remember. Not like that matters anyway. Our lives are meaningless, the sooner we accept that the better.
Well if you are really asking a question to get a real answer..then I’ll give it to you. But i have a feeling you won’t accept the answer. But here it goes..
I and many people I’ve talked to have been to that point and seemingly, we keep meeting that point of no interest or curiosity, no ambition, ruined marriages, can’t get a job or focus to learn something new.. everything you just mentioned. I’ve been there, so I can tell you that I fully understand. I also have a spine disorder that’s getting worse every year and causes pain 24/7, i cant have children, I have bi-polar disorder and trust me..I’ve been to that point where everything is negative from every view point. In fact I still wake up every morning wanting to end my life because the feeling never fades, that life can be very pointless.
I can not explain to you the science of having strength and faith in yourself. I can not install confidence in others. That’s something that everyone must figure out for themselves.
All I can offer is my story and ask that you continue to give life a chance and try hard to let go of that notion that life is only disappointment.
At a time when I was saying goodbye to my life..I found a way to travel and it gave me new hope. When I returned home..I found a purpose to make my life about to carry on that hope. That hope lead to being open enough to attract someone to love me. And even though she is gone now, I’ve survived to push my hope to branch out and truly see the potential I have in me and my mind. I’ve learned that letting go of certain notions to make myself tolerate life, have proven to help me grow as a person. My ability to cope against the odds and move forward has granted me a perspective to handle new downfalls. I’ve learned that life will always have its negativity and it’s seemingly impossible challenges, and to write them off as too hard to handle or not worth the effort is a false and ignorant assumption.
A person’s perspective on life is not the miracle I speak of. The miracle is in the human condition itself. The fact that we exist continues to be a mystery and a curse, but finding that reason to keep living as a human being proves to be the greatest miracle life can grant, and the only real challenge we are faced with.
Do your best to remove those filters that you view the world from, shed the hate that has kept you so safe from facing real life..and you will eventually manifest your own reason to stay alive.
I hope this helps. I know it isn’t easy.
Good luck
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Ok, I’m back! 🙂
How did it go?
Ehh.. it’s a work in progress!
How was the other side?
There is nothing worth seeing on the other side.. that is the misconception of death.
A lot of people believe that all their problems will be solved by ending their life here but it simply isn’t true.
Imagine.. all the mysteries in life still go unanswered. There is no pleasure.. there is no challenge.. there is no love.. there is no freedom.. there is nothing. And there is no chance to come back and complain about having nothing in the first place.
Some people take their life for granted at an early age and never really get that chance to learn and grow in this world. Most only perceive that life is full of hate and war and pain. But that simply isn’t true. For a lot of people..life can be so much more.
The experience of having a life in this existence is second to nothing. You only get this one chance to appreciate what you have and before you know it.. it’s all gone.
It’s very important to cherish the time you have left as a human being. We are unique to this universe in every way. No, we don’t have to be perfect..we don’t have to have superior understanding for all things or eachother. We are creatures of habit and confusion..and i can promise you that there is no existence more fulfilling than the will and desires that make up the human condition.
Sentient by nature and limited in our time here on this planet. Out of the primordial nothingness, we stand to be the greatest miracle life has to offer.
RealTalk30, that’s the first response I’ve read on this site that made me feel better. Thank you.
@RealTalk30 once there’s no curiosity left, no ambitions, it’s okay to leave. We all die anyway, if someone doesn’t enjoy life and sees nothing worth living for, miracle would be the last word they’d use to describe life. Sometimes there really is no point. If they ruin all their relationships, aren’t competent enough to study/ get a good job, spread nothing but negativity, why not? Why not get rid of the excess. Earth is overpopulated anyway, one person more or less. Tomorrow noone will remember. Not like that matters anyway. Our lives are meaningless, the sooner we accept that the better.
Well if you are really asking a question to get a real answer..then I’ll give it to you. But i have a feeling you won’t accept the answer. But here it goes..
I and many people I’ve talked to have been to that point and seemingly, we keep meeting that point of no interest or curiosity, no ambition, ruined marriages, can’t get a job or focus to learn something new.. everything you just mentioned. I’ve been there, so I can tell you that I fully understand. I also have a spine disorder that’s getting worse every year and causes pain 24/7, i cant have children, I have bi-polar disorder and trust me..I’ve been to that point where everything is negative from every view point. In fact I still wake up every morning wanting to end my life because the feeling never fades, that life can be very pointless.
I can not explain to you the science of having strength and faith in yourself. I can not install confidence in others. That’s something that everyone must figure out for themselves.
All I can offer is my story and ask that you continue to give life a chance and try hard to let go of that notion that life is only disappointment.
At a time when I was saying goodbye to my life..I found a way to travel and it gave me new hope. When I returned home..I found a purpose to make my life about to carry on that hope. That hope lead to being open enough to attract someone to love me. And even though she is gone now, I’ve survived to push my hope to branch out and truly see the potential I have in me and my mind. I’ve learned that letting go of certain notions to make myself tolerate life, have proven to help me grow as a person. My ability to cope against the odds and move forward has granted me a perspective to handle new downfalls. I’ve learned that life will always have its negativity and it’s seemingly impossible challenges, and to write them off as too hard to handle or not worth the effort is a false and ignorant assumption.
A person’s perspective on life is not the miracle I speak of. The miracle is in the human condition itself. The fact that we exist continues to be a mystery and a curse, but finding that reason to keep living as a human being proves to be the greatest miracle life can grant, and the only real challenge we are faced with.
Do your best to remove those filters that you view the world from, shed the hate that has kept you so safe from facing real life..and you will eventually manifest your own reason to stay alive.
I hope this helps. I know it isn’t easy.
Good luck
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