i have reached a point in my life that I never thought I would reach. Recently I found out my wife of almost ten years has been cheating on me for sometime now. I have worked six days a week since we were married to provide her with the life that she always wanted. We even have a beautiful son together that was recently diagnosed as having autism. I have done everything for this woman that I thought was the love of my life only to have her stab me in the back.
I came home one day to my son in his room playing, while my wife slept. She has RA so I knew that she has hard days where it is hard for her to move so I let her sleeep. Once I put our son to bed later that day I went and checked on her and found her crying. I of course was worried and then she let me have it. The rug had been pulled out from under me, and the next day she was gone with my son. The two things in my life that gave it meaning have been taken from me and my reality has been shattered. I am not sure how I can go on without my son. I just can’t handle the betrayal and I miss my son.
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I’m really sorry that you are in pain. Betrayal is a very hard thing to get through but there can be light after some time. Everything is so fresh for you right now. I don’t think she can just take your son away like that.. You can file for custody also.. I hope you can get through the night.
Sorry rah ,
your not the first one to experience this type of human behavior , billions wake up to this kind of mess everyday, nothing I can say to make you feel better or fix it, the only thing I can say is deal with it, that’s reality, not your fault but shit that’s what you got, don’t grow bitter, the faster you accept this fucked up situation the better you will deal with it, you will need to move on and not let it make you sick, do your best to help your son get through this he is a victim like you, work on yourself and starting over, so you have the tools to still have a chance have a life a happy life that includes a future your son and yourself.
It hurts like a ***** to give that much of yourself to someone and have it thrown away before you’re eyes. That being said, the wounds are fresh. This is when they hurt the most. I’m not saying the pain will ever go away, but it will get easier. Support your son. Do all you can for him. But don’t let him see you break. He still needs you. Just do the best you can with the hand you’ve been dealt. Play your cards right and you might be able to rebuild at some point. Best of luck to you.