Hi, i’m guy from finland and i’m 17 years old. I wanted to tell someone about how i feel, but i dont have any good friends to tell about them and then i find this page. I hope this will help me keep going on because i have no idea what i’ll do with my suicidial thoughts.
I have lied to all of my closest friends and my family and now i think i should tell them about it but if i tell i dont know what will happend between me and them. I Think that telling about it will make my life harder and i’m scared to lose those people but same time im in huge pain. Lies i have told makes that everybody knows me and they are talking about it allmost every day i see them and that makes mee feel bad. ill continue this if there is some kind person who might help me with this and sorry for my bad language
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Tell the truth if you can. It may relax you. Me too lied to many. I’m suffering and I hate people now. + I like your country educational system. In my country educational system is a hell. Good luck.
I have no idea how to tell about it and thank you for support<3
yes, tell them the truth. I hope they will at least try to understand you. People who have not been through this may have a hard time understanding, even judgemental. I figure that’s why you haven’t told them yet. Please don’t tell them anything you are uncomfortable with though.
explain everything you would like, i hope it will work out for you and them, and i hope you are able to stay friends. If they don’t care when you tell them maybe they were not true friends anyway. And i hope you and your family can stay on good terms. Sorry if i sound strange, if i write strangely, i really do not mean to come across that way, i am a complete mess myself…
but tell them, perhaps it will be like a BIG weight being lifted off your shoulders. Again, i hope it will work out for you. I am sorry that you are suffering.
Don’t tell your friends the truth. It will make your life so miserable and they can’t help anyway. I mean, what do you expect them to do for you? The person you need to tell is your doctor. Maybe simple medication will get you back.
Tell your friends and family the truth. If it was opposite and you knew one of your friends was feeling what you are? Wouldnt you want them to tell you? Sharing helps. And real true friendships are meant to be strong enough for the good AND tough times.
I have a habit of relating quotes on people; but that’s what they’re there for. If you’re truly in stuck in what to do, flip a coin and decide what should happen if it lands on heads, and what should happen if it lands on tails, then flip it in the air. The trick with this is that for a split second when that coin goes into the air, you’ll know what you want to do. Sure if you tell them, they may be judgemental, even your family, but then that just shows who you truly need in your life (I believe another person made a similar comment regarding that). If you don’t tell them then yes, it’s hard to go it alone. So maybe if you decide to go down that route you can talk to people on here who are going through similar things? Share as much or as little as you think will help, and you might find the help you need..
That’s just my opinion 🙂