Today, was terrible. It started off with me being lied to. Then that lead to me doing something terrible because of that lie. Next, I went throughout my whole day thinking that was a great thing I did. After school, I got a text asking why I did that terrible thing from the person I did it to. I asked about the lie and they said it wasn’t true. Then, that person blocked me, and I really needed to say more to them. Then, I figured out that I did that terrible thing for no reason and my crush, hated me. It was terrible and I had no idea what to do, I couldn’t trust anyone and I lost my only hope of happiness.
Thank you universe…… 🙁
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Trust me when I say this school life is shit. When you get older gets way shitter so be prepared for more shitness! Your just aloud to eat what you want get your own house and then work for the next 50 years of your life. Sounds really depressing but is that crush looking like the worst thing now? I was probaly the least favourite girl in school so a crush was wayyyy out of the picture! To be honest I didn’t really like the guys very much anyway all assholes. But what ever that terrible thing was might be able to be made up for? If you explain that you were told false Infomation and will trust that person (the crush? I’m hoping I’m getting this right) more next time and won’t jump to conclusions which trust me as a very paranoid fiancé of a amazing man happens hell of a lot! He/she may forgive you? Just give them time to cool off. I found time even though it eats you away is the best healer of anything. Just waiting which is a pisstake.
How do you know what you’ve been told was in fact a lie? The person denying it could’ve done it but trying to lie to look innocent.
However it’s important to be careful whenever you take any action. I nearly did something very stupid in high school but was stopped by a friend who just randomly happened to be at the right place and time…but I wasn’t thinking, I was very angry at someone and was about to make the biggest mistake of my life-even if I was in the right.
That experience taught me not to let my emotions take control-the outcome always ends up being terrible and patience really is a virtue. There are times where immediate action becomes necessary and unavoidable in some situations. But if you’re ever in a dilemma where you have time to think or ‘sleep on it’ do that first.
Hopefully whatever happened in your case wasn’t too extreme. Also never automatically trust anyone. There are people who have no problem lying to others to start trouble. It’s always best to second guess.
I just ruined my life because I failed to be patient and trust/believe my partner. I didn’t have all the information and I jumped to conclusions. She was the love of my life. Now she’s gone forever.
Doctors give me medicine as if that will make the guilt and regret go away. It doesn’t. I’ve ruined my life and I want to die.
Always give your partner the benefit of the doubt. Never jump to conclusions. Trust your lover or else you may lose her forever.
You might have a chance to patch things up. Whenever things like that happen you can only check the facts before acting, and like someone pointed out above, it’s possible that the person you care about did lie and is using what you did in order to avoid responsibility (you might want to check on that)… if not, and apology and accepting blame might ease up things a bit.