Sorry for posting again. Slow day at work. Just saw him repost more meme about love/sex/etc. and that one that says “masterbation keeps you from fucking the wrong person” and that really fucking cuts like a knife down to my soul! I don’t think I’m the wrong person or bad for him at all as much as I do to show I truly care!!!!!
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I don’t think you should take that personally at all.
Oh you make me feel tired… but I’m going to respond anyway.
Two Points.
One-Please Read this Post page:
“Please do not hog our shared space here — including our homepage — by posting a bunch of your own posts all at once or in a row. One post, per person, per day, should be more than enough to allow for your own self-expression. More than that, and you may find some deleted.” You could have just commented on your other post, but no big deal.
Two-You still think this guy is perfect? really? It’s not what’s wrong with YOU, it’s what’s wrong with HIM. If he can’t accept you for who you are, Leave Him In The Dust. It’ll be better for you in the long run. Or don’t, it’s your life, but he’s not helping you any.
That’s it. Have a nice day. Try chanting when you get home.
I think the one post per day rule can be hard to stick to sometimes.
I think you think this guy is seeing you in a worse way than he is. I don’t think that was about you at all. You’re overly conscious of his feelings towards you – which is a good thing, because it means he’s most likely not insulting you. But he sounds shallow, and it sounds like that’s causing him problems… and you can’t change him. Only he can change.
Focusing on that idea that you aren’t good enough for him, and that you’re not attractive, will only give you more of those thoughts. I know you can’t turn off the switch and stop caring about him, but you can try to make it less painful.
I’m not saying it’s ironclad, but when you get three by the same person in the span of four hours it’s a bit overwhelming…
I’m gonna stop talking now.
Disguise just listen to what Trix says you really can’t go wrong.
Memes are just stupid phrases attached to a related picture. Even they make us laugh or hold some truth at times, most of those are just post-botched-lobotomy levels of coherent, and made by people that can barely put two and two together (and when they can, it comes out as 3).
I’ve been there (but i’m case those were directly posted against me) and i know it’s hard, but don’t give it too much thought and don’t take it personally, because memes are plain out stupid most of the time.
I’m guessing that if people would get affected by memes 3/4s of the internet population would be dead.
great. Believing that something is just so wrong with ME is the problem. I just can’t be anything to anyone because I’M not worth a fucking shit!
It’s only the imagine of yourself that you have at the moment. It’s not how you actually are.
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Oh AND I forgot this part. When I post memes about not having love, wishing I had someone, being in love with someone, etc HE tells me not to post them because it’s too much for him to take but I’m supposed to handle his constant posting about being lonely, alone and wanting hot girls!?!?!!
Right there, that’s the part of him that’s flawed. He doesn’t take notice of your feelings in the same way as he does his own. I’m not sure, but I think you’ve made it pretty clear how you feel. It might actually help to see that he has flaws. He’s definitely not perfect.
Yes, flawed in that way. But physically, what a god of a man. Good lord….
Have you always been attracted to him?
1. A friend of his commented and he replied that the meme made him laugh so hard because it’s true, which makes me feel like shit and I’m included in his list of horribly wrong people to ever get with!!!
And yes, I fell for him the day I met him. I didn’t expect the guy I was giving a ticket to a concert to would be such a gorgeous, intelligent, funny, sexy hunk of man that would steal my heart within a few hours. But I mean nothing in that regard and I’m a disgustingly, horribly WRONG person for him even though I give him all I have to give because I try to show him what it’s like to truly be loved.
…so it makes him jealous if you say stuff like that?
No it stresses him to feel how much I love him.