So this weekend some friends invited me to go hang out and go to the club with them, but it just ended up making everyone pissed off at me. We were hanging out at my friend’s apartment and drinking getting ready to go out and waiting for another friend to get off work which that was all fine. We stopped at a pizza place to eat and by this point I was already really drunk. One of my friends invited this girl I really didn’t like, then she invited more people I didn’t like, because they’re just generally rude people. We were getting ready to leave, but those people showed up and we couldn’t. By this point we had been at the stupid pizza place for 3 hours and it was already 12 at night. I wasn’t feeling good and I for some was really stuffy in the restaurant and felt hot and claustrophobic. I was begging my best friend to leave and just to the club and dance, but they wouldn’t let me go. I stepped outside because I was feeling really hot when they came out and yelled at me and told me I was being a *****. So I went back inside and sat down when they decided to order even more food when I had been begging to leave all night. I told them I wasn’t feeling well but they didn’t listen and told me I should just leave. I was upset and drunk so I told my friend I was pissed at him and left the restaurant. At this point it’s the middle of the night and freezing cold outside and I have no idea where I am because I don’t live in the city. So I try to call a taxi on my phone but my phone isn’t working. So I’m wondering around lost in the cold in very little clothing and no jacket for an hour. I tried calling my friends and they wouldn’t answer. Eventually one of them called me and asked where I was and I stood on the street corner for 45 minutes shivering, in the middle of the city by myself with random people pulling over trying to talk to me. They came and picked me up and I fell asleep in the back of the car and when they got home they carried me into the house. I woke up and asked to go home but they wouldn’t let me go home so I started crying because I was pissed off at them and kept trying to explain to them. Eventually I stopped crying and talked to one of my friends alone and he was nice and understand. The other half of our friends just left and went to the club not very long after I left the restaurant and now all my friends are pissed off at me for being an unreasonable drunk.
Does anyone else get like that? Like most of the time when I drink I’m fine, but everyone once in a while I’ll get weirdly upset and hysterical and it sucks because I’d like to be able to go out with friends and drink and not get like that. I know alcohol is bad for me since it’s a depressant and I have depression, but I still like to drink with friends.
This has been another uninteresting post in the saga of chelle428
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Usually when I drink, it can go a few ways:
1) Sit silently brooding in a dark mood.
2) Talk a bit too much about things I shouldn’t be saying
3) Giggle like an insane idiot at every damn thing.
It depends. Any of the above can happen.
Honestly, I don’t drink much at all, and I haven’t had anything in years, but lately I feel like I want to have just one night of drunken misery. Just one.
I’m having a rough time with things here, and also I just found out that one of my favorite SP’ers has left the site (possibly permanently). So dammit, I would like to drink myself stupid for one night.
Maybe Monday.
I’ll have to go out and buy stuff.
If I do, I will post on SP throughout the evening so you can all see me at my worst.
and we will be here for you…
Will you?
cordy..I always am..for fun..and for real..
Cordless….Will you be speaking jibberish like AS? Nooooo… Who’s going to translate for me…
I probably won’t be typing in all-caps, but you still might want to keep a dictionary on hand just in case.
I haven’t been drunk for quite a few years, so it’s possible my tolerance is like a ten-year-old. I considered buying a fifth of amaretto… possibly limoncello… possibly midori… possibly vodka.
I drink very very little as well..
I remember ToTrees liked tequila.
(*sad face*)
Cordless what do you mean? ToTrees is gone?
And where’s Bah? He said goodbye and didn’t come back
You can read about it in the comments here:
suicideproject.org/2016/03/our-friend-totrees/
Thank you Cordless
So, ToTrees is maybe still alive and we don’t know about Bah….maybe it’s for the better that they’ve moved on.
I don’t know about that; I think this is a nice place that they could still enjoy.
We definitely miss them.
Whoa, your friends sound like assholes
I thought about that too.
They should have been more supportive than that.
I also would like to experiment. I don’t know if it’s my personality or what, but I’ve never done anything crazy while being inebriated that I can recall. I haven’t even said anything stupid that I regret. (I say much more stupid stuff when I’m sober and mad.) I mean, that is good, but I would like to just get really drunk in a fairly controlled environment and see if I act any differently. I think my problem is that I have a fast metabolism so it takes a while (and a lot of drinks) for me to become intoxicated, and by the time I am drunk I’m just tired and want to go to sleep. Honestly (when I was younger), I would act much more crazy when I was feeling giddy and hyper than I would under the influence of alcohol. Perhaps I’m more of a philosophical drunk.
* in response to Cordless’ comment
I haven’t been drunk a lot of times, but still often enough to know the do’s and don’ts.
I learned that (for me at least) the way to avoid a hangover is to start drinking a ton of water at the end of the night. Drink a ton of water, pee a lot, drink more water. It flushes your system out and stops the dehydration process from happening.
Often the problem is just trying to keep my mouth shut about things I shouldn’t say.
And since a lot of things have been getting on my nerves lately, that should make for an interesting drunken evening if I post on SP.
Stay tuned!
so you are gunna drunk text us so to speak
Something like that.
In the interests of good manners, I will try to keep most of it contained on one post instead of splattering my boozy breath everywhere on the screen.
(You’re welcome.)
But who knows what will actually end up happening.
When I drink in a good mood, then I’m usually the happy giggly one.
When I’m in a bad mood, that’s when I’m either (1) sullen and dark and angry or (2) Saying WAAAY too many things I should probably have kept my mouth shut about.
Since I seem to be in a not-so-good mood lately, this should be interesting.
I’m sorry for the bad moods..you deserve the best..there are few lovelyer people..I am humbled by you
That’s usually how I am, if I am in a good mood then I am super crazy happy when I’m drunk, but if I’m in a bad mood I get really hysterical and it’s like I’m in such a crazy dark sad place and I just sob. This night was weird because I was just feeling very crowded and panicked which usually isn’t like me, but no one would let me leave and I felt if I didn’t I would start to panic or end up getting sick. Drinking usually just amplifies my mood by like 1000, but I’m almost never overwhelmed and panicked like that and it was made worse by the fact I couldn’t get up and move and we were in a hugely crowded place for a very long time.
I’ll go out on Monday and see what I can find that sounds good.
Some of the stuff out there sounds intriguing but awful.
Awhile back I saw glazed-donut-flavored-vodka.
Nothing against glazed donuts (although I like chocolate ones better), but vodka?
Ew, right?
I remember Midori tasted sort of like cantaloupe melon or honeydew melon, which was sort of nice.
Limoncello mixes well with 7-up or Sprite or other citrusy things.
Amaretto mixes well with Cherry Coke or Dr. Pepper…
I’ll need to think about it.
Wait… what’s the orange stuff…..
Triple Sec! That would go well with Orange Crush or orange juice.
In college I briefly liked Jack Daniels mixed with root beer.
@chelle: Yeah, I think being in a crowded place– and not having a way to get out– would bother me a lot too.
@sportsnut: Meh, if nothing else it should at least be entertaining.
I’m the same when it comes to drinking in a bad mood – it makes me super anxious and irritable, so I try to avoid that. I generally consume alcohol when I’m in a celebratory mood for whatever reason, or when I’m watching a sports game, or when I’m bored and want to do something fun (or maybe I’m just a part-time alcoholic in denial). I did have a memorable Halloween once where I imbibed a lot of Limoncello and watched The Rocky Horror Picture Show… good times.
@neph..did I here alcohol, sports, and pretty girl in same post….ylem are you asleep… neph.. how you doin..
they all sound good..triple sec is just more of a mixer I think..
I can pretty much guarantee it won’t be beer… I never was able to enjoy the taste of beer.
Tried it enough times to know that it just doesn’t grab me.
Not a big fan of wine, either, unless it’s a cooking ingredient.
maybe I’ll have to get something too
LOL!
Now that would be interesting to see.
A sportsnut with FEWER inhibitions. 🙂
Hee!
that is a quite scary thot eh..candy floss snaps it tis
Do they actually have Cotton Candy Schnapps?
I vaguely remember trying schnapps once or twice, but the proof was so low I didn’t think it was worth it.
Although if my tolerance is lower now, I guess that wouldn’t be an issue.
I dunno.
Still leaning toward some of the other options.
omg..I just posted a naught candy floss reply to you on somebody’s new thread..
bevmo.com/cotton-candy-liqueur-750ml–750-ml-.html
totalbev.com/COTTON-CANDY-LIQUEUR.html
schnapps is generally around 100 proof..good stuff anyway
lol candy floss liqueuer hehe… I love candy floss
I’ve never tried Everclear, but I hear that’s good hardcore stuff.
190 proof lighter fluid.. like moonshine
Or I could just drink the lighter fluid.
6 and a half dozen or the other
What a coincidence!
You attract suitors; I attract dust.
We could be twins!
😮
(That’s probably something I would say if I was drunk).
Haha Cordless. That was just a little suicidal humor. I’m not as young and wild as I once was, which is why I spent my Saturday night drinking tea and watching the CW show Crazy Ex-Girlfriend (which is pretty good, by the way).
you should drink everclear and listen to everclear
Well, whatever I do, I’ll announce ahead of time what I’m doing so everyone can peek in and see me make a complete ass of myself.
If it’s too god-awful-embarrassing, maybe I’ll delete it the next day.
Or not.
I promise nothing!
Bwa ha haaa.
lol.. cordless.. one time kaylee left a message drunk and said…I’m making a complete arse of myself..hehe
Fun fact: Knowing me, what will irritate me most is not saying embarrassing things, but MAKING TYPOS when saying embarrassing things.
I’m one of “those” people who notices typos and grammar errors and punctuation errors. Most of the time I’m polite enough not to say anything. Seeing it come from MY OWN HANDS, though, is unforgivable.
I can see it now:
SP: “Cordless, I can’t believe you’d say that! Have you lost your mind?”
Me: “Never mind what I said…. didn’t you notice the incorrect usage of apostrophes and all those capitalization mistakes? Just shoot me now.”
lol..I’m the same way.. I write for a living but on here, it my let go time…so anything goes…
@sportsnut Busy chasing off the dozens of suitors I inadvertently attract due to my numerous charms, how bout you?
*damn WordPress. This was supposed to appear above
@nepheliad.. intrigued..and scared.. but just dumb enough to try..
Apparently my brain is already drunk; my reply showed up above. ^^^
That’s another thing I’d have to keep track of; making sure my comments show up in the right spot.
Life is so complicated.
LOL.
you are telling me..it’s hard enough to hit the toilet tipsy..he he
At least girls don’t have to worry about that part.
Usually.
unless I forget to put seat down and you fall in…hehe
I leave my seat down all the time, buddy.
You can fall in your own toilet any time you want. 🙂
it has happened
@cordy so bah just left us here or left for good
I’m assuming that she just left us here at SP instead of leaving the planet entirely, but the honest truth is that I don’t know any more than the rest of you about that.
She seemed really upset that people were leaving so much off-topic lovey-dovey flirty stuff on her posts.
Stuff like that can trigger people sometimes, you know.
Maybe she had all she could take.
Maybe she’ll come back eventually; I just don’t know.
And it looks like ToTrees has a moderation-comment in the trash which says “Fuck this site, I’m out.”
That makes me sad; he and I were good support for each other because we both have weird crap growing in our heads for no reason.
And now he’s gone too.
Dammit.
That’s one of the reasons I feel like getting trashed.
he is such a nice fella
Yes.
ya that was mostly me… we used to be mma buddies
??
bah and i
Multinational multimedia association
lol..how did u know
I had no idea what the acronym meant!
Mammal Magnification Association
Murder Minimization Aggregate
Mostly Moose Antlers
mixed martial arts
Melon Meringue Appetizers
Marilyn Monroe Actress
Montana Mashes Apples
Mountains Make Avalanches
Moose maximization area
niil .. are you makin another one of those double entendres
Mermaids Move Aquatically
Mangy Mongrel Anger
Managing My Acrophobia
wow
Multiplied maniacal arachnophobia
mammoth megafactory arrivals
mammal magical airforce
monkey mirror abyss
mighty morsel association
maggot minute antidote
magnificent market arsenal
many murdery arseholes
Milking mighty animals
Muffins may arise
maze me anyway
merry mills abattoir
maybe more associations
Married men association
mottled meerkat area
message me arena
my mouth aches
must move away
may make apples
make money again
muffled mouse adjective
Monks may arrive
multimedia moves away
maracas mighty arrival
those are awesome
make me aroused
you slip those in every once in a while
what do you slip in?
you slipped in makes me aroused..
niil..I’m going to sleep..great getting to know you…
chelle428, your problem isn’t drinking it’s being around people you don’t want to be around, you’d been upset either way. don’t hang out with people you don’t want to be around, exit stage right.