How do you get over a 5-year relationship, that was with your best friend and the only person who truly knew everything about you and did everything with. I feel like I’ve lost everyone because of him because when we were going out he would only want to be with me and he used to drag me away from my friends so I would spend time with him. Now I have no one left because of him and he’s left me. I need some opinions on what I can do, I don’t want to be in a new relationship because I can’t bear it. I need someone to give me advice, I’m trying to be strong and not anything stupid that I will regret now or in the future.
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There is only one thing you can do. Move on. You don’t have to be in a new relationship right now but in time you will probably want to. Like i did. Find your friends, talk to them, they will understand. Just don’t do the same to them for another relationship. Relationships come and go but friends are (usually) forever. You don’t have to do anything stupid just plan your next steps as single.
You cant get over it.. The more you try to forget, the more you remember.
The happy u you try to look and cheerful.. The worse you feel inside
The only way to deal with it is to make yourself believe that that person is no longer alive.. Even if u saw him or her.. U should think that u didn’t, its just a reflection of ur memory. U will feel like ur heart is ripping in two because one part says go back, the other says dont..
U should cry.. Its okay to be alone for a while.. Its okay to not talk to anyone.. No one will blame u and those who do let them do, who cares what those animals thinks..
One thing u should take a note about pain is.. You gradually get used to it to a point u can no longer feel it although its there like day one.
The more you cling to hope.. The more you will get hurt.. Abandon hope.. You have lost that person.. Thats the end of the story..
I’m still getting over my breakup from January. I’m not strong. I’m still a mess. I find myself hurting slightly less as time goes by,but it still feels as if I lost a piece of me.
I don’t have any advice, unfortunately. Time is the only healer. Breaking up with someone is much like actual grief that people experience from a death.
I’m the same. January, the girl who planned to be the mother of my children, ended things with me. I’m the opposite thigh- everyday since has gotten worse and worse and worse… Hence what got me on a suicide site looking for advice on how to go out…