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by Wintergirl

I’m not doing well tonight.  Got in a fight with my boyfriend. It wasn’t a huge fight or anything but it just left me feeling so bad. We had a nice dinner planned. Well, he did. Then one little thing I didn’t do set him off and now he’s sleeping but he made himself something to eat. It’s absolutely stupid really. He was mad because didn’t have a beer for him when he got home from work. Nevermind the fact I was on my way back from the store when he happened to get home an hour early. No use explaining.  I really didn’t feel like arguing because I know I haven’t done a damn thing wrong. Hell, all the dishes were done and the house was straightened up. He has his issues and I know I have mine too. It’s just disappointing when you have plans and the other persons mood swings get in the way.  I know I’m perfectly capable of taking care of myself and will make my own damn dinner eventually.  I just feel sad I guess. I try so hard to help him and keep the house up and take care of myself too but this week I was really sick for close to two days and I’m not quite 100% yet but I’m trying. It’s not like I’m surprised by this behavior, just disappointed.  It’s just got me in a funk.


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rocketman 5/6/2016 - 8:53 pm

Wintergirl, i’m sorry that the whole situation happened like that, he was being an asshole! he shouldn’t be so…………. petty! he should have looked at your efforts and had a wonderful dinner and grabbed you and kissed you! people are so stupid! it happens to me too! people just don’t know how to handle the small shit, they turn it into big shit and ruin everything! never sweat the small shit and everything is small shit! i feel for you! 🙁

Wintergirl 5/6/2016 - 9:05 pm

He was. I’m going to have some ice cream and forget about it. He gets crabby when he doesn’t get enough sleep. He said he wasn’t mad at me but just doesn’t handle his shit well when he’s tired. It’s not right but it’s how it all went down. As long as he just gets the sleep he needs an d leaves me alone the rest of the night, I’ll be happy. Thanks for your reply Rocketman.

rocketman 5/6/2016 - 9:19 pm

Wintergirl, your welcome 🙂 you need to remind him just what he missed out on 🙂 then he will try to say he’s sorry again, but oh well when you at like an asshole things just don’t all the sudden magically become good again, he needs to go out of his way now to prove he’s sorry, it’d time for you to collect! 🙂 he owes you big time! 🙂

Wintergirl 5/6/2016 - 9:32 pm

He’s missing out on some damn good ice cream! Oreo blizzard with hot fudge .

Cordless 5/7/2016 - 12:55 am

That sounds DELICIOUS.

Wintergirl 5/7/2016 - 2:19 am

It was. So much sugar.

rocketman 5/6/2016 - 9:42 pm

Wintergirl, ha! what a dummy! i’d kill for a good time like that!!! Oreo blizzard with hot fudge!!!
i’m doing something really simple tonight, i’m buying double quarter ponders with cheese and adding brown chili from the can and making chili cheese burgers, simple fun and different, i got ice cream too!!! i plan on having a nice evening lets see if i can pull it off? 🙂

Wintergirl 5/6/2016 - 9:51 pm

You should get some fries and dump chili sauce on them too, with shredded cheese on top, don’t get md’s fries, go get those crinkle cut frozen ones, it doesn’t take long to cook them and they are really good. Enjoy your dinner!

rocketman 5/6/2016 - 9:57 pm

Wintergirl, i’m doing that!! you and i think alike!!! 🙂

Wintergirl 5/6/2016 - 10:19 pm

Chili cheese fries are good. I’m just going to listen to this TV show on in the other room now while I’m online. It’s talking about ICQ. It must be set in the early 2000’s. I wonder if ICQ is still around.

rocketman 5/6/2016 - 11:28 pm

Wintergirl, they turned out great!!! 🙂

Wintergirl 5/7/2016 - 12:49 am

That’s great to hear!

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