Well Y’all… I’m going finally end my life disgracefully. I can’t go on. My husband took it upon himself to beat Me until I couldn’t move. I could barely breathe as he choked me and beat my head in. I escaped but my son left behind. My face, neck and chest are messed up. I can barely move without a cry. I’m Done. I’m just done.
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see you comment alot to people you seem to be a good person
That’s insane. First of all, I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
Honestly, the situation will get messy no matter what you do. If you leave your son with an abusive father, he’s screwed. And if you take him with you but can’t support yourself, he’s also screwed. But if you call child protective services…well, we all know how those stories end. He’s screwed.
I think at this stage you should put your energy into fighting back. Calling CPS won’t harm your son worse then staying with an abusive father would harm him, plus it would screw over your husband. You should also get the police involved. If they don’t help you, you should leave him. Better to be homeless and starving then to abide by someone like that.
And if he follows you / still doesn’t leave you alone, I think if it were me I would turn to more drastic measures.
I don’t think you should kill yourself. You have something you need to live for. Your pride. You can’t let someone beat you black and blue and get away with it. You can’t, for your own honor. Make the bastard pay. Even if it isn’t physical retaliation (and I’m not saying physical retaliation is out of the question, I’m just saying that you have better options at the moment), make him feel every strike he’s landed on you a hundred times over.
Just my 2 cents. I can’t stand abusive men.
tl;dr: My advice:
1. Call CPS, make sure your son is out of there.
2. Call the cops, ask them to help. File for divorce, try to get as much out of your abusive husband as possible in terms of money/property.
3. Leave him. It’s not the most satisfying thing, but it’s damage control.
4. If 3 fails because he follows you or something, and the cops won’t do anything…at that stage the best course of action is to take the bastard out.
Remember, you should give up your life before you give up your honor.
Sister, I am horrified and saddened that this has happened to you. Please, if you can, contact the police and report what your husband did to you. Go to a hospital and get your injuries treated. I understand that domestic violence situations are hard to escape from but please give yourself chance.
I understand my hypocrisy when I say this as I have planned and still deal with suicidal thoughts, but I want you to know there are people who can help you and you don’t have to end your life.
You don’t know me and I don’t know you but whatever you decide I will be thinking of you. Your husband deserves to be punished for what he did, not you. Again, I am so sorry you had to experience something so traumatic. I’m sending all the love I can to you. Take care, Sister. I hope you will be able to recover.
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Go to the police and get your husband imprisoned. Seriously, this can all be stopped if he goes to jail.
Go to the hospital right away, please. Tell the docs your husband assaulted you. Call a friend to come give you support. Press charges. Call the domestic abuse hotline 1-800-799-7233. They will help you.
You can save yourself and your son.
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I hope you don’t end it, but get that child out of there first! It’s the least you can do. Your child didn’t ask for that.
You’re pretty tough.
Call the cops on him. Get him out of your life.