What would you do If you had some health problem that prevents you from having sex. For example, if you felt horible pain. It is a reason for kill yourself?
I’m asexual so I can’t really have sex without feeling really unhappy and wanting to vomit…..
I don’t think that’s related to my being suicidal though. I’m sorry that this doesn’t really answer your question but I thought you may find that niblet at least mildly interesting.
No, There are other things in life that you will take real pleasure in. Sex is not everything. Find something you love to do and go and do that , dont worry about being judged either, no one has a right to judge anyone of us without living every day in our shoes
Everyone has a different reason to kill themselves, so no one can answer this except yourself. For me personally, sex never made any difference. I’ve gone through dry spells, I’ve gone through abundance. It never changed how suicidal I was. My guess is, sort of like lack of money, it feels like that’s the reason why you want to kill yourself, but the real reason goes deeper than that. Because people with tons of money and/or sex kill themselves every day.
If you have pain during sex it is definitely a medical problem, usually, it can be fixed. There are other good feelings you can experience being with someone than just sex so it wouldn’t stop me from living but it would be a damper.
Wanting to end your life goes way beyond sex. If for example, I don’t have a good life, home, suffer from illness/pain and decided to end my life, sex would be low on my list for reasons to keep living.
Of course, sex can be amazing and fulfilling with the right person but there’s much more to life than good feelings and getting your rocks off.
Doctors don’t know what I have. I don’t want to be dramatic but it really doesnt have a solution. I am quite tired of asking doctors. No man will accept live without it. Of course this is not the main reason I am suicidal, but it still is pretty sad.
Plenty of people dont have sex lives, plus you can still have a sex life without actually having intercourse. Don’t write off your whole future because you don’t think any man will accept life without it. It’s not everything, you can share a lot in a relationship and it still be totally worthwhile
Thank you. I really apreciate your help. Unfortunally reality is not as beautiful as teory. But Yes, I know that are People Who don’t Care that much for sex. It is a shame no one is around me.
He is right. I think its not that big of a deal. I am sure there are plenty of guys who would be able to work around this if they cared for you (and u for them). I would for sure. Plus most guys would probably enjoy a good blowjob the same if not more than actual intercourse. Im sure you gonna be fine 🙂
I’ve had a few good experiences and a few bad experiences with sex.. But mostly I’ve had to go without it.
Idk if it’s worth killing oneself over. There are other good, important parts of a relationship. You could probably find a nice partner who is asexual or doesn’t like intercourse for whatever reason or who also can’t have it due a medical reason.
I masturbate a lot since I haven’t had sex in a long time and have no hope of finding a sex partner again. Hardly any woman wanted me in the past and I’ve mentally and physically deteriorated to the point that NO woman would want me now.
I wish you luck with your condition and finding love.
I don’t know If I understood the correct meaning of asexual (not a english native speaker) but I do like sex, I Just cant have it. Thats the bad part. If you don’t like it it wont be hard live without it I think.
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I’m asexual so I can’t really have sex without feeling really unhappy and wanting to vomit…..
I don’t think that’s related to my being suicidal though. I’m sorry that this doesn’t really answer your question but I thought you may find that niblet at least mildly interesting.
No, There are other things in life that you will take real pleasure in. Sex is not everything. Find something you love to do and go and do that , dont worry about being judged either, no one has a right to judge anyone of us without living every day in our shoes
Everyone has a different reason to kill themselves, so no one can answer this except yourself. For me personally, sex never made any difference. I’ve gone through dry spells, I’ve gone through abundance. It never changed how suicidal I was. My guess is, sort of like lack of money, it feels like that’s the reason why you want to kill yourself, but the real reason goes deeper than that. Because people with tons of money and/or sex kill themselves every day.
If you have pain during sex it is definitely a medical problem, usually, it can be fixed. There are other good feelings you can experience being with someone than just sex so it wouldn’t stop me from living but it would be a damper.
Wanting to end your life goes way beyond sex. If for example, I don’t have a good life, home, suffer from illness/pain and decided to end my life, sex would be low on my list for reasons to keep living.
Of course, sex can be amazing and fulfilling with the right person but there’s much more to life than good feelings and getting your rocks off.
Doctors don’t know what I have. I don’t want to be dramatic but it really doesnt have a solution. I am quite tired of asking doctors. No man will accept live without it. Of course this is not the main reason I am suicidal, but it still is pretty sad.
Plenty of people dont have sex lives, plus you can still have a sex life without actually having intercourse. Don’t write off your whole future because you don’t think any man will accept life without it. It’s not everything, you can share a lot in a relationship and it still be totally worthwhile
Thank you. I really apreciate your help. Unfortunally reality is not as beautiful as teory. But Yes, I know that are People Who don’t Care that much for sex. It is a shame no one is around me.
He is right. I think its not that big of a deal. I am sure there are plenty of guys who would be able to work around this if they cared for you (and u for them). I would for sure. Plus most guys would probably enjoy a good blowjob the same if not more than actual intercourse. Im sure you gonna be fine 🙂
I have a mental problem that prevents me from having sex. I hate myself.
I’ve had a few good experiences and a few bad experiences with sex.. But mostly I’ve had to go without it.
Idk if it’s worth killing oneself over. There are other good, important parts of a relationship. You could probably find a nice partner who is asexual or doesn’t like intercourse for whatever reason or who also can’t have it due a medical reason.
I masturbate a lot since I haven’t had sex in a long time and have no hope of finding a sex partner again. Hardly any woman wanted me in the past and I’ve mentally and physically deteriorated to the point that NO woman would want me now.
I wish you luck with your condition and finding love.
May I ask how old are you?
There are asexual guys out there. Proof:
youtube.com/watch?v=jf9I04Oa-hU
I don’t know If I understood the correct meaning of asexual (not a english native speaker) but I do like sex, I Just cant have it. Thats the bad part. If you don’t like it it wont be hard live without it I think.
About mid 20’s and I’ve never even had sex.
I think you just need a new pleasure to get addicted to. I’m sure you can find a lot of them online. Food is the most obvious one.