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It would be nice

by PanicRevelation

I really want to die but im still too scared to do it alone even though ive been trying and failing for years now

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Sbilko 5/27/2020 - 12:15 pm

Please don’t, there’s a positive solution to everything. Please think how your family and friends would feel, how it would completely destroy your parents.

PanicRevelation 5/27/2020 - 12:29 pm

My parents physically and emotionally abused me as a child and continued to do so well into my adulthood. Nice try though i appreciate it

Sbilko 5/27/2020 - 4:11 pm

I’m truly sorry that your parents abused you. My mother too wasn’t always the best mother; but now, I’m not trying to change those behaviours of hers, I trust that she won’t be forever so, it seems to be just a tendency of hers.

The ironic thing is that I pray to the Holy Mother of God to make my mother more like Herself, yet I don’t treat my mother like I would treat the Mother of God. I’m trying to improve in my behaviour towards family, regardless of theirs towards me. And one of the positive things is that when I take steps to be more kind with them, with time they adopt these behaviours themselves!!

Perhaps you can try the same? Though, I think that first you need to forgive them, from the very bottom of your heart. It’s ok, forgiveness takes time, but it’s priceless. For remorse is like a burning coal: you hold it against someone, but who it burns is you.

no name 5/27/2020 - 4:09 pm

yeah, sadly i have a feeling most peoples problems here started with their parents. and if they didnt start it they probably didnt help because if they did i have a feeling they wouldnt be here considering they would have gotten help and had a good support group.

either parents dont care or they care too much. i havent noticed much of a middle ground with that. of course that could just be my own personal opinion on parenthood and what ive personally seen from parents.

also i feel that using other people to stay alive isnt exactly the best motivation. if it works for someone then great but on a general level parents and friends might view it as “selfish” to take ones life when really they have no right to judge not being in the situation the person was in and therefore it would be selfish of the family and friends to want to person to stay and suffer just for their own benefit.

CARLOSPEJUAN 5/28/2020 - 4:29 am

Don’t do it. Instead take a leap of faith, do what you’ve always wanted to do in life or work towards it. I know It’s easier said than done. I know this is not what you want to hear. I know you are in a dark place. But you gotta get up and try. Shine your light through this darkness. Don’t let something so shitty defeat you, you are better than that. Hope this helps bye

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