Idfk anymore, I'm just here I guess3/14/2021 - 3:48 am
Same, I wish I didn’t have any influence over others because all I do is fuck them up, at this point all I really do is contaminate others’ mental health
Idfk anymore, I'm just here I guess3/14/2021 - 3:50 am
And what’s worse is they deny it and think it’s part of who they are, when my negative traits transfer over to them; they don’t even see what’s going on and don’t understand it
Yeah, I also worry about ruining other people’s mental health all the time. This is one of the reasons why I don’t like talking to my friends about my problems and stuff. Its probably not a very healthy way to think tho, idk
This is something I struggle a lot with too, but a good way I found to breach the subject with a friend you’re comfortable with is to ask if they’re ok with you ranting before you do it, and if it involves suicide, let them know beforehand and ask them if it’s ok to share. Make sure you’re in a comfortable space that you won’t be interrupted in.
Boundaries are so, so important, because your friends probably want to talk about their issues too, they just feel bad about it. That’s part of what friends are for.
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Same, I wish I didn’t have any influence over others because all I do is fuck them up, at this point all I really do is contaminate others’ mental health
And what’s worse is they deny it and think it’s part of who they are, when my negative traits transfer over to them; they don’t even see what’s going on and don’t understand it
Yeah, I also worry about ruining other people’s mental health all the time. This is one of the reasons why I don’t like talking to my friends about my problems and stuff. Its probably not a very healthy way to think tho, idk
This is something I struggle a lot with too, but a good way I found to breach the subject with a friend you’re comfortable with is to ask if they’re ok with you ranting before you do it, and if it involves suicide, let them know beforehand and ask them if it’s ok to share. Make sure you’re in a comfortable space that you won’t be interrupted in.
Boundaries are so, so important, because your friends probably want to talk about their issues too, they just feel bad about it. That’s part of what friends are for.
Thats a good idea