I’m trying to think of a time where I was proud to be me. Where I was glad to be me. I can’t think of any. I think for brief moments in my life I was proud of certain things. But I think about it and all seems so superficial and meaningless. I have very few skills to be proud of. Very few accomplishments that I can think of. I’m only really good at getting good grades. But even then I feel like I got it trough luck and because I got things handed to me. I never felt like I earned what I have. Even then, I’m still not very booksmart. I got the grades through seeing loopholes and cramming. All the information more or less leaves my head afterwards. I’ve never done anything outside of class that can be called noteworthy. I think the only thing that I’ve ever been considered “good at” is my part time jobs working as a delivery driver or as a cashier. My degree I’m working towards doesn’t seem earned. The internships felt like they were given to me, not earned. I am not proud. I do not like being me. I can’t remember the last time I liked being me.
To that one guy who bothers to comment on my posts, what’s up with you? Why do you bother leaving a comment. I don’t really read the posts you write on the site. I skim them sometimes. I’m sorry about that. I know you probably have your own troubles, so I feel bad that I don’t give you the same courtesey of listening to them. I feel like nothing I write seems worthy or reading, so why do you read them? I mean I appreciate it and all, but it just seems odd.
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Seems to me that you’ve accomplished quite a bit. You get good grades, you’ve gotten some internships and you’re working toward a degree. But for some reason you don’t think you’ve “earned” any of those accomplishments. You say that the grades were because of luck, the internships were handed to you, etc. Seems like everything you accomplish, you immediately dismiss it. What would you have to do in order for you to feel like you earned something?
You seem to have this belief that you’re not capable of earning anything, and from an outsider’s perspective that doesn’t make sense.
That’s fair. I don’t know what it will take to make me see it any different. I just have a hard time seeing it any other way.