Before I rant I’m just gonna give a brief backstory because why the fuck not :). [So long story short me and my sister suffered a lot of mental and some physical abuse from my Dad and when I was 12 a restraining order between us and him was put in place, which he didn’t try to even fight because he doesn’t care (I haven’t seen him since)].
Anyways So my aunt died a couple weeks ago. (Aunt = Dads brothers wife) I didn’t have a close relationship with her mainly because I don’t remember her before she had a stroke and brain aneurysm and lost use of the entire right side of her body (after that she spent a lot of time in nursing homes) but I still loved her. So my uncle invited me and my sister to the funeral. The funeral was like a 5 hour drive from us since that’s where my uncle lived. (it was Thursday morning and we were gonna drive there on Friday because the funeral was Saturday) and my uncle calls my sister telling her it would be best if we didn’t go to the funeral. WTF. he said its because my dad found out we were going and told my uncle he wasn’t going to be there if my sister and I were there. And my uncle didn’t want to explain to a bunch of people why his brother wasn’t going to be there Because my dad was the “Paul bearer” which I guess is an important role in the funeral. don’t ask me because I don’t know what it is.
Anyways so I don’t know why but I was just sitting here thinking about how fucked up that was.