Can someone please explain to me why it’s ok for my ex to tell everyone he sees that he’s got a date coming up, but it’s wrong for me to say that a friend told me that I should consider thinking about the possibility of maybe dating again? I’m glad my ex has a date, maybe he’ll finally leave me alone, other than that, I don’t really care too much. What bugs me though, is after saying that I might CONSIDER thinking about dating, he throws a fit and says that I think he’s worthless, and I never cared and blah blah blah. Is it just something that happens to me, or is this actually normal?
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Just cut him off. Block him on any social media and if you call your cell phone provider they will tell you how to block his cell number.
I agree with Gabriel. In his eyes, he can do what he wants (date) while still placing some control over you (manipulative guilt trips). That isn’t cool and it’s time to end contact.
Switch FREQ. That way the mong can’t contact you. “Sorry bud, I’m on a different bandwidth to you…buffoon…” What I find odd is that you still give a shite about his opinion (in all honesty, he sounds like a lil’ ***** with no absolutely no control over his own life) and as such should DISREGARD it and any other musings he fires your way. Lawd, I hope it ain’t the normal thing these days, that’s just…tragic.
Obviously you’re deserving of a better man (or an actual man as compared to this baw-boy) and you shouldn’t harbour any concerns about putting yourself out there.
Sounds like he still has feelings for you. Would also explain his need to brag about his new date.
I already blocked him, so the only contact we possibly have is at work. And I don’t care about his opinion, I care when he literally throws a fit in the middle of the check stands when he doesn’t get a reaction from me, and everyone looks at me like I did something wrong. Fuck him.