i made my SP account recently but ive been visiting this site for more than 4 years.. this site had amazing conversations and people were really socializing and the posts had not less then 20 comments however depressed or suicidal you were people would cheer you and be friendly now i see posts going without comments and no socializing this place was like a big family what happened???
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I guess it depends on why you are here. If you are looking to socialize and have people cheer you on and tell you how great you are and how deserving you are, then you should post something that will attract that kind of attention. There are plenty of people on this forum that will be more than happy to oblige. You just have to post the right thing, I guess.
i dint mean it that way ….i dont need attention i dont know how to explain but i feel sp has just become different
Maybe it has. I’ve only been here for a little over a month. So I don’t know how it was before. I’m ok with how it is now. People come and go. They post and comment on what interests them. Like I said, if you want a certain type of response, then you need to post something that will create the reaction you’re looking for.
*shrug* I find people mostly reciprocally engage.
hey sorry but i dint get what u meant cephalus
I just mean, it seems the more you engage, it seems that others will. Sometimes.
Well, it’s a suicide-related site, after all. There are a couple different possibilities.
Meh. I guess when no one gives a shit about you in real life, it’s hard to keep caring online. Most of us are apethetical introverts who can barely function in society… Let alone continuously build people up when all we think of in regards to ourselves is negative. After a while we wonder who we’re trying to convince… Let’s face it for most of us life isn’t going to get any better. In the end we have to admit this and either give in or get on with life as best we can.
I think back in the old days the place seemed smaller, more like a family. now new users pop up and disappear too fast for that same family feel to grow. But sooner or later a new core group will appear and stick arround and this place might just grow into a new close place. I remember the old posts. you could write about anything. if you needed someone to just listen to you rant, they were there, someone to joke with and make everything look better there was always someone you knew to be there, usually more than one. i remember posts getting well over a hundred comments on a regular basis no matter the topic. when you talked people listened and those people made the family. most either got better or learned to cope without this place. that old family has grown up and for the most part left. its up to the new members to create their own family the way they want. its up to you @kukushafeek you want this place to change into something better youve got to make it happen. we old timers got lucky, the right people showed up at the right time, hang arround and the right people to make a new family will get together