We’re all going to die anyway. Why talk about our problems. They mean nothing in the end. There’s no point in trying to connect with or help others. There’s no point in doing any of this meaningless crap. We’ll all just cease to exist one day and our bodies will either be burned or put in a box and then put in the ground. We’re all going to disappear one day and nothing that any of us do will matter. There is no point to any of this.
I think the great majority of us on this site has realized that life is pure and utter shit. There are a few good moments, a few distractions, scattered throughout this hell hole. We shouldn’t cling onto these moments. All they do is get hopes up and make you think that that’s how life is. That life is supposed to be fun and happy. That we’re all supposed to be loved by friends and family. That for some reason, things seem to be bad right now, but things will be better if we keep trying. We should just admit it. Life, real life, is not fun and happy. Real life is shit.
Every bad memory you have, everytime you were picked on, everytime someone talked down to you. Everytime that you tried your hardest and someone turned around spat in your face. That’s life. Not some happy-fairy tale bullshit.
We’re probably all dead already, just reliving this moment as our lives flash before our eyes. Reliving everything as our brains shut down.
Chances are, we’re all dead.
Why fight it anymore
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maybe you see it this way becouse of something you had
as long as we are getting into this site and talk about our problems that means we are strong and wants it all to be over it means we wants it to be solved to have a normale live .. i wish to forget it all one day and have a husband and kids and have a great days with them .. i am holding on and fighting and you are here alive and you have the chanse to forget someday and carry on and have a great live .. we are a shoesen ones .. we have been shoesen all the time to experiance a live of crap so we know wer not like the others we are stronger
eventhough we are not loved by ourselfies or by the others somehow there is someone who loves you .. there is someone who loves me ,, there is someone for each one of us ,, we should just somehow stop thinking and just be alive
its all will turn to be good someday and we will remember
we are greater with our pain greater with this shitty live
great with our golden hearts ..
we are live and always will be
once upon a time i was soo happy that i was afraid to die and know i am here in a suicide site .. wanting to die
but its not my time
and so is you ..
have a good night
Great post, Jano. I admire your strength so much. You rock.
I understand your frustrations. I really do. If you knew the facts of my life you would know that I know where your coming from. In fact at times I have been right where you are in my thinking.
I used to think exactly that. That were all going to die anyway. Whats the point ?? Grumble Grumble
but rather I made a Shift in my Thinking and now I SEE it another way.
I see it rather that if were going to die someday…. (Yes that is true.) But why not make the most of things while were alive and try to make the best of this life while we have the opportunity to do so. Why not do that…because there will be plenty of time to be dead later on…after this life.
Like what if when you die the only thing you have left is the memories of your life. Like when you die you just become unable to think or to ponder or do anything anymore.. but the only thing you can retain is the memories of the time when you were alive. If that is true then don’t you think when you reach that state that you will have wished that you tried harder to make the most of your life?
Don’t you think that when you reach that state that you will realize that life itself was actually really pretty dam cool in a lot of ways but you just didn’t realize it enough or didn’t appreciate it enough? Don’t you think that when you reach that state that you wish you had another shot at it…. and that if you had another shot at it that you would learn to appreciate even the littlest of things. That you would make the most of your time while your alive.
That’s how I see it now!!
Yes I get frustrated at my life because there are quite a few things about my life that are super hard and sad and depressing at times. But I have learned that its also cool to be alive too. I can make choices when I am alive. I can choose to appreciate things and I can make decisions and take action to try and make things better for myself and for others and I know that when they put me in the grave.. I will be GLAD that I made the most of my life. I will be glad that I didn’t give up. I will be glad that I worked through the hard times so I could experience some more good times when they came. I will be glad that I choose to appreciate even the simplest of things….. I will be glad I tried my best to help myself and glad I chose to help others too.
trust me its worth it to live…no matter how hard life seems. AND on top of it when you experience a lot of bad times. It will make the good times in your life seem even better when they come and trust me if you hang in there the good times will come.
Everybody who is experiencing a great life right now at some point had it really bad.
You cant even enjoy life without there being some bad times.
Because we cant experience the fullness of up if we don’t know what down is like.
We cant appreciate what its like to on the top if we have never been on the bottom.
We cant fully appreciate the light if darkness didn’t exist
We cant fully appreciate things if we dont know the opposite
so think of it this way
You might be in a down spot right now. But you need that down spot to be able to experience the UP time that is bound to come.
SO choose…. choose to deal with what you are going through right now.
Choose to learn what life is teaching you right now. That some downtime is necessary for you to enjoy the UP TIME when it comes.
And we always need to make “good choices” when things are down so the good times can come.
so take this down time of your life to really think about things. And make choices that will best launch you into a position later on down the road for you to be in a position to receive the Good stuff.
Make a shift in your thinking and make good choices right now in your life and TRUST ME
Good times will come and youll be glad you hung in there through the difficult times.
Trust me!
Maddie, you’re a deep thinker and that makes life hard. I’m a deep thinker too. I’m a 24 year old man whose attempted suicide numerous times, I can tell you right now I KNOW life is worth it. Knowing this, please read, think about and trust my advice.
You’re not wrong, life isn’t a fairy tale. But it doesn’t have to be so shitty. First try and always remember that people like you and me not long ago would be locked in a dark room forever because of our problems. Still, society has a way to go understanding anguish such as yours.
You’re told that if you ever acted on your anguish you would hurt those that love you and that its wrong. No, you may agree with my opinion that what that sounds like is a prison and that isn’t fair to you. So forget about living for ANYONE else, live for YOU.
You deserve to feel happy. Regardless of your age which is unknown to me, you have been and are on an incredibly journey. Cliches: just wait and it’ll be better! Life IS beautiful just look around! Etc. Practical advice: Seek help – psychiatrist, medication, self improve help with exercise and meditation. JUST DO IT.
SERIOUSLY. Of course that all seems pointless now, because you are in a depressed state. Remember those happy moments? You CAN extend that to MOST of your life. You won’t ALWAYS be happy, but you’d see the difference and believe me, it would be enough. Every person feels happiness at some point, they may dismiss it as being in a state of ignorance. I’ve thought like that A LOT. But it isn’t true. Simply; you deserve happiness. You DO. So let’s get you there.
Maddie, life is a *****. It’s true. But I promise you it is worth it. I could say so much more but too many words and they will go unread. Please message me if you want. You are not alone.
Your post is exactly how I think when I am in one of my funks. Everything you said, I could have written it myself (if I were betting at that sort of thing). Sometimes I can take comfort in the fact that nothing really matters. There is some liberation in that. It is all pretty pointless. Life is like a bad joke but as Citizen says, we might as well make the most of it.
I am one of the lucky ones. I can get out of bed and do stuff that is totally meaningless, ridiculous, absurd and pointless. I’ve given up looking for deep reasons to live or die. As Citizen said, we’re a long time dead. If I can make someone else’s meaningless joke of a life a bit better then why not?
I used to be in a cult/subscribe to a religion that teaches that this is all an illusion. All of it. There really is no point in getting out of bed and eating but then again, why not do it? Why not see what the game has to confuse, annoy, upset, amuse and infuriate me today?
When I remember that it is all pointless I am kind of liberated. Nothing I do matters and that is fucking hilarious considering how seriously I take it all 😀
“There’s no point in trying to connect with or help others.” – It’s the only light I have in my life right now. I’m so grateful for everyone that takes the time to talk to me, whether they’re trying to pull me away from the edge or talking about their own problems.
“Why talk about our problems. They mean nothing in the end.” – Everything lives. Everything dies. I want to live while I’m still breathing. And the things you do, and the things you feel, all mean something *now*.
“That’s life.” – It’s part of life.
“Chances are, we’re all dead.” – It feels like it.
“as our brains shut down” – It feels like that too. That rings true in so many ways to me. I’m still holding out for recovery. You talked a lot about the future, and how pointless life will be in the end. I’m more interested in the present. But sometimes I live in the future, and lately I haven’t been working enough at bringing the way things are now any closer to how I want them to be (and think they could be someday). That’s almost definitely holding me back. Other times I completely give up, and have no concept of a future at all. Thinking that there can’t be a happier future makes it more unlikely. It’s something you have to build, until those better moments do become the majority of your life. If you think life is shit, it will be. A lot of it depends on your perspective and which things you focus on.
I hope you feel better soon – enough to see the glimpse of a possible better future.