Why can’t I see my LDR boyfriend really soon for a month or so? So what if he needs to work…. I still want to see him. I have the means. Gosh what is the problem? This is really annoying. Wouldn’t most people in LDRs jump at the chance to meet? Maybe I should just respect the fact that he just wants to meet in August. As I keep explaining though, I’m willing to pay for everything. We don’t need to spend every waking hour together. I want to see how he actually lives. I don’t want him to drop everything while I’m there just so we can spend endless time together. That’s not realistic. I’m sure we can see each other for a while everyday. I’m not clingy.
I feel really selfish…. But I thought he really wanted to see me…. So why wait??????
Ugh. I had to get this off my chest. Maybe this will get resolved!!!! I feel pretty whiny :/
I mean, maybe we could come to a compromise. Ugh. Oh well. He’s prob annoyed at me.
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I would have a problem with a LDR to be honest. You are tougher than me.
There’s a girl I’ve known for over 5 years now. Hopefully we will meet soon.
Maybe you should just meet with him in August. It’s not like he can just take whatever days off work that he wants to. No guy wants to meet someone and not have any time to spend with them. You know having it fully planned out for August would work the best for everyone. Waiting can be hard. But he’s worth it
I do find that a bit confusing too, I would be very excited if a friend just wanted to come over and visit for a long period of time, I also wouldn’t really want to spend all the time with them still though because space is important to me…. Is there a reason you two can’t do now and whatever is apparently planned in August? O.o
also August is like a month away…. Doesn’t it take that long anyway to even plan a trip?
He wants to spend as much as time with me as possible in the time we are visiting each other. Working will take up his time therefore he won’t be able to see me as much
but isn’t your trip mostly because you need a break? You should do whatever you want, and him spending time with you sounds like it’s kind of on him? I’m not sure -_- I’m sorry