Hey, don’t take it personal. Not all posts get replied to. If you want someone to talk with, just post asking if anyone is around. Lots of people here to talk with if that’s what you want, including me. I’m here a lot.
Those blast letters people send at x-mas … written to everyone and no one but someone at the same time? Your post is the opposite, written to someone and no one but everyone. Hard to respond to that. Talk to us rather than some faceless, nameless no one that we don’t know of.
I’m not allowed to work because we recieve Dissability Living Allowance and Child Support, so if I was to work and earn over £20 a week then that would stop and my mum has a baby and a dissabled boy to care for
where abouts are you from?
it would help if you were able to move out, but i guess thats not an option then.
its just a shame you’re not even 18 and you feel that way.
Uk, in the south
It would be brilliant, there’s a hostel near my house that is £8 a week and they povide your meals and basics, would love to go there
I’ve been like this since I was about 9, ever since I was involved in a peodphille ring
i’m in the south west.
yeah, it would allow you space and maybe to meet new people, maybe some new friends.
well obviously certain things will never go away, like that, it’s hard to put things behind you, even if they are with you forever though, if you can find something that makes you happy or helps, it can go a long way to changing your feelings.
ah yeah, im from bristol.
yeah i read that. if theres something causing you pain, maybe it’s better to not see him, or to talk to him about what is causing you pain, and if he could try to understand, if he wont, then it’s not worth you being more hurt by him.
i know what you mean. i feel it’s pointless saying anything to anyone, as 1: they dont want to hear it anyway, and 2: even if they did, they wouldn’t say anything. i know thats contradicting what i said, but then you may have someone you can talk to.
Exactly, nope if I had someone to talk to I wouldnt be on this site everyday
I asked for help (first time in 6 years) for my cutting, my college tutor, she promised to help, then forgot about me. I haven’t asked again, I’ll feel like I’m bothering her, I mean she is pregnant, don’t want to cause he stress because of me
well you’re still thinking of other people. shows you are a caring person. you don’t deserve to feel that way all the time. i’m sure you wont bother her asking again, just mentioning it to her.
Nope, I’m at my dads house and so I’m so bored it’s unreal and when I’m bored I think and when I think I cut and it’s just a cycle and I’m waiting for someone to come online or ring me so we can have an argument about last night and everything else
well an argument wont help. maybe better to talk to people who wont argue. you need to find a hobby of sorts, something to keep you busy so you’ll think about that more. something you’re interested in, you say you do dance? doesn’t that help?
The argument needs to happen, it’s with the boy i mentioned earlier on, it needs to get sorted because he’s taking me for a complete idiot, Yeah i love dance but i have no space to do it and ill probably get beat up if i dance in the street around here
ohright, well as i said, if its more pain than happiness, it’s better to not have him in your life. if you want to try and be happy.
yeah i guess space would be an issue. you dont play any instruments?
ouch. i can get why youd feel lost, not being able to do anything. thats how i feel. just no motivation. you do have time to make a chnage and be happy though.
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Hey, don’t take it personal. Not all posts get replied to. If you want someone to talk with, just post asking if anyone is around. Lots of people here to talk with if that’s what you want, including me. I’m here a lot.
Those blast letters people send at x-mas … written to everyone and no one but someone at the same time? Your post is the opposite, written to someone and no one but everyone. Hard to respond to that. Talk to us rather than some faceless, nameless no one that we don’t know of.
I don’t quite understand..
people are always here to talk. really it’s what the sites for more than anything else, so people don’t feel as alone as they normally do.
I’m just worthless, nobody has the time to bother anyway.
we’re bothering now. i got time…
I just can’t do this anymore :\
i know the feeling, you think, whats the point, nothing changing. how old are you?
Yup exactly, I’m 17, 18 this year, young ay?
yeah, quite young. you do have time to change things, especially at 18, if you work you can get away, move town or something.
I’m not allowed to work because we recieve Dissability Living Allowance and Child Support, so if I was to work and earn over £20 a week then that would stop and my mum has a baby and a dissabled boy to care for
where abouts are you from?
it would help if you were able to move out, but i guess thats not an option then.
its just a shame you’re not even 18 and you feel that way.
Uk, in the south
It would be brilliant, there’s a hostel near my house that is £8 a week and they povide your meals and basics, would love to go there
I’ve been like this since I was about 9, ever since I was involved in a peodphille ring
i’m in the south west.
yeah, it would allow you space and maybe to meet new people, maybe some new friends.
well obviously certain things will never go away, like that, it’s hard to put things behind you, even if they are with you forever though, if you can find something that makes you happy or helps, it can go a long way to changing your feelings.
Hampshire.. south east or south west, not so sure?
I found someone, but from my pevious posts hes starting to cause me more grief than anything
ah yeah, im from bristol.
yeah i read that. if theres something causing you pain, maybe it’s better to not see him, or to talk to him about what is causing you pain, and if he could try to understand, if he wont, then it’s not worth you being more hurt by him.
He doesn’t understand what goes on in my head, tbh neither do I really..
i know what you mean. i feel it’s pointless saying anything to anyone, as 1: they dont want to hear it anyway, and 2: even if they did, they wouldn’t say anything. i know thats contradicting what i said, but then you may have someone you can talk to.
Exactly, nope if I had someone to talk to I wouldnt be on this site everyday
I asked for help (first time in 6 years) for my cutting, my college tutor, she promised to help, then forgot about me. I haven’t asked again, I’ll feel like I’m bothering her, I mean she is pregnant, don’t want to cause he stress because of me
well you’re still thinking of other people. shows you are a caring person. you don’t deserve to feel that way all the time. i’m sure you wont bother her asking again, just mentioning it to her.
Nah, she’s got other things to worry about like our final dance exam on june 16th and baby stuff, maybe I’ll ask next year, maybe
do you not have anything you can do at home that takes your mind off cutting, like something to do insted?
Nope, I’m at my dads house and so I’m so bored it’s unreal and when I’m bored I think and when I think I cut and it’s just a cycle and I’m waiting for someone to come online or ring me so we can have an argument about last night and everything else
well an argument wont help. maybe better to talk to people who wont argue. you need to find a hobby of sorts, something to keep you busy so you’ll think about that more. something you’re interested in, you say you do dance? doesn’t that help?
The argument needs to happen, it’s with the boy i mentioned earlier on, it needs to get sorted because he’s taking me for a complete idiot, Yeah i love dance but i have no space to do it and ill probably get beat up if i dance in the street around here
ohright, well as i said, if its more pain than happiness, it’s better to not have him in your life. if you want to try and be happy.
yeah i guess space would be an issue. you dont play any instruments?
Well it has to be sorted anyway, yeah last time I danced in my kitchen I hit my head lol
No I don’t
ouch. i can get why youd feel lost, not being able to do anything. thats how i feel. just no motivation. you do have time to make a chnage and be happy though.
Mmm maybe, who knows? I’ve got a lot of stuff going on right now, not looking possible
you never know what could happen, when 18 comes along you’ll have a little more freedom. i found that, i’m glad i didn’t do anything back then.
I probably won’t be here when I’m 18