i feel worthless a lot, i feel fat and ugly and weird. i also feel like everyone around me doesn’t actually like me so when today everything went wrong i just went for my second attempt. the first time i tried to kill myself i did it because i feel the world would be better without me, when my dad found out what i had done he said “grow up, and get out” but thats exactly what i was trying to do. I was being mature in my actions by attempting suicide in order to make my family and people who are close to me happier, i feel like i only bring darkness into this world and hate. i don’t really know what else to say exept instead of doing pills this time (last time i took 60 prescription pills) i held a plastic bag up to my mouth and breathed in slowly. I could have called someone like my friends or my mom, but i felt like they have heard enough complaining from me and they probably wouldn’t even listen to what i am saying. so i just kept breathing. i started to get tired and right now im pretty light headed so i decided to figure out a better and faster way to get the job done, so i typed in suicide on google for some retorted reason and while scrolling down something caught my eye, something i didn’t expect. it said “If you are feeling suicidal now, please stop long enough to read this. It will only take about five minutes.” so i clicked on the link. Now you should understand that my first attempt at suicide i was 100% ready to go, i had my note i was listening to music and i was at peace. i knew what the consequences of my actions would be and how maybe one or two people would be sad, but i figured everyone would move on and eventually forget about me. Anyway i was laying in my big sisters bed staring at her blue walls and sinking but then my friend texted me asking me something and i replied no i think and she said “ok i love you!” in that moment i caught myself with tears streaming down my face and replied and told her exactly what i did. instead of being mean, she instructed me to throw as much up as i could and pushed me to tell my mom what happened. walking from that room up to my moms was the hardest thing i ever had to do. Because of that text message i made it, not because i had faith in myself, but because somebody had faith in me. Once i got up there i started balling and after about thirty minutes i confessed what i had done. when my mom told my dad as i said he wasn’t all that understanding. he took my phone and ipod and threw them down the stairs, i went to the ER and they made me drink charcoal and put an iv in i went at 11 ish am and was transferred to a hospital an hour away at about 12 ish pm thats 13 hours. i got blood taken from both hospitals and i had to give the suicidal ward my lace up boots my jacket and i couldn’t hold my own toothpaste. what i don’t get about all that is i could have hung myself with the bed sheets and i clove broken the glass on the shower and slit my neck but obviously the people who made the place aren’t as clever as i am. after a few days with these people i lied my way out of the place insisting that right after i took the pills I decided to throw them up. The doctor ate that bull right up. then i convinced my parents with the same sad story i insisted school was stressing me out, ect. Once i got out i went to therapy a few times but didn’t bother paying attention. But today when everything broke apart i started begging god to take my life instead of me having to do it. i prayed for that, so when i clicked on the link i decided to read. And i did, i read the whole page not skipping any words. as i read i finally felt like someone understood what i felt. im not phsyco or week or stupid. i just cant handle some things that happen to me. i am alright now, i still need help but i know that im not alone. i may be alone in this room but i know somewhere out there someone feels or has felt exactly how i have felt and if they can live, then god dammit i can too.
thank you for reading my long ass story if it helped then great if it didn’t this is the website i read
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/
good luck
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inspiring..your absolutley rite!…ur not alone..people shouldn’t try to end their life just coz they think others will be better off widout them..coz u kno wat peeps..ur on this earth for a reason..god brought u in this world for a reason..nd no one deserves to make u feel down or to make u want to kill yourself!!..u have eevry possible right to live nd live happily..if the rest of the humanity is happy nd living life..nd ur damn rite that even u can be HAPPY nd never give up…life is precious..enjoy it!..seek help..hurt no one..treat urself right..killing urself is mocking urself..nd no one certainly deserves to be mocked at for some worthless reasons..
I hate Bieber too… Guns ‘n Roses (from the 80’s) are one of the best bands of all time!
The Slash autobiography is fucking awesome! You won’t be disappointed. Gutter Rat to Rock Star. Misfit makes Good….it’s uplifting….
Ah same way I found this site.. Small world ain’t it.. Good luck to you as well, abby, and thank you for sharing your story with us.
Yeah, I found this site long ago, I remember trying to explain to someone “Suicide is not chosen; it happens when pain exceeds resources for coping with pain.” – and the frustration of dealing with people who can’t understand that is soul draining lol. glad you found something that helped you and don’t forget what drove those feeling you had when you wrote “and if they can live, then god dammit i can too.” – take care