About 4 years ago i lost my grandmother. I was probably the hardest thing Ive ever had to deal with. I’m still not over it and i think about her often. Shortly after that i started to cut myself. I cut myself for about a year and no one knew about it. One day i decided i needed to stop. Ive gone almost 3 year with out cutting myself and Ive been fine up until now. Lately IÂ just sad all the time, I put HUGE walls so one can get close to me and as soon as someone gets close to me i cut them out, i don’t know why and i don’t mean to i just subconsciously do it. About a month ago i felt a strong urge to cut myself again because i was really stressed, but i didn’t. But not a day goes by now where i think of killing myself and cutting. I know deep down i wont cut myself but i do wish i was dead sometimes. I’m a high school dropout, i dropped out in February, i just finished summer school and my parents continue to tell me how proud of me they are. I makes me hate myself every time they say that because i think how? How can they be proud of me when i haven’t finished high school, i have no motivation and i fake being happy everyday? I have amazing parents and an amazing best friend who would do anything for me but still im so suicidal lately i don’t know why i just am :(.
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Well most likely there is a reason I’m not saying all the time there is but if you were to look close enough or to converse with an observant individual you might just actually realize there is a reason behind your suicidal tendencies, Most people i have met usually just quickly throw the Chemical imbalance out there, then it is suggested you take drugs to get yourself through the day and get completely reliant on them well i say fuck that the drugs have side effects that cause even more issues and lower your self worth many times over. You mentioned you have walls?! these walls, what are they? why do you have these self defense mechanisms of “cutting those out who get close to you?” like i said there is a reason for everything If you want to figure this out I’d be more than happy to help psychiatry is like my second language for being such a mad person i can’t believe i understand it so well….anyways cheers for sharing hope you can find a way to stick around till we speak again.
what was your grandma like/ was she cool…