Well I’m the youngest in my house. I’m 13 and everybody else like 2 , 3 , 5 , and 6 years older  then me. My 15 year old sister that was there when I was getting sexually abused keeps taunting me about the sexual abused when I was little  ! She making me feel even more bad about myself. I know I’m doing the wrong stuff like I was about to have sex with a 23 year old man. Well I need to slow down and stop everything I’m doing. Well my mom thinks I try to act like my big sister , with my behaivor. Well I’m not. I dont even like my big sister because she makes me feel like everythings my fault ! Well I’m gone try my best and stop having sex, drinking , and smoking!!! I just turn 13 like some months ago and I feel so depressed. I don’t feel like a normal kid. Well Can Everybody give me advice
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Your situation is very saddening, i can’t even believe your sister taunts you about it… I think for starters, to try to ignore her if you can, avoid her, and if she’s annoying you, walk way for a few min, go take a few deep breaths. (good way to ignore is listen to music with headphones) One day i hope she realizes what she is doing… Yes, you need to avoid all that, make it so there’s absolutely no opportunity that a 23 year old man is talking to you. If i may ask, what do you normally do that makes it possible for older men to be around you? Partying? if so, stop that, again hang out with friends that would rather go to the mall or have a fun girls day/sleepover! That is great news that you’re going to try to stop =D. Again to feel like a normal kid, you have to take it down a few notches, relax and be friends and hang out with people your age (if they are the bad influence, possibly join a sports team or other activity you may enjoy to meet new people!)
heh and sorry if you’re tired of my advice and want to hear from others lol
why others crewde….you seem quite capable…truly….
i unfortunately cannot touch this particular issue….too raw….too close…others will join…but you are definitely enough imo….
tear drop….know you are loved and safe here at least…..know that you won’t always feel like this…..other than that better skip before i get in trouble again…..lol
you are heard….you do not deserve any of this…..that is the truth
Namaste
Crewd keep yo advice coming . ! and thank yal 🙂
=D
good work crewde…. he is a standup guy …and he likes arnie 🙂