Here we go. Just tossing this essay of self-hate out there, so some sicko can read it and get their jollies off from my misery. Well, either that, or well-meaning people will drop some meaningless words of encouragement, sympathy, or advice.
Where should I start? I’m 26. I think about killing myself nearly every day. Things that I once found fun, I simply do to waste time. I no longer get any enjoyment from them. I’m in college, studying chemistry, but I really don’t see the point, and I don’t even know if I’m working toward a realistic goal. I work part time at a Home Depot. I do grunt work. I get paid less than $10/hr. I hate it. I hate working for a megacorporation.
I hate America. I hate what our culture has become, as everything just gets more shallow, and catered for mass consumption, works of music, film, etc. are becoming more meaningless, formulaic, predictable. I have my subcultures that I enjoy, but I don’t see eye-to-eye with the average person when it comes to entertainment and culture.
The corporations are to blame, as they’ve turned artistic mediums into a means of profit. Every song follows the same structure, the lyrics touch upon the same themes, the sitcoms recycle all the old jokes, and reinforce negative stereotypes applicable to all races, genders, etc.
The corporations control the US government. Their campaign contributions are unrestricted. Although your vote decides the result in the end, their money chose the candidate in the first place. The same talking points are recycled, and they speak in vague, understandable terms which mean very little, but sound pretty to the voters.
The politicians who we put in office owe no alleigance to us–they are working for the men who bought them their position–so they work to line to pockets of the already super-rich, while the middle class suffers.
We are slowly becoming a fascist state, and all the people care about is what’s on television. They don’t care what happens, as long as they have their comfortable distractions. They let themselves be mislead by the biased media (left and right), and none are capable of independent thought any longer. The news is full of celebrity worship, missing children, and the next big tech gadget that everyone’s going to blow their cash on. You rarely hear stories about major corporations violating workers’ rights in third world countries, or here at home. You just keep hearing about the fucking terrorists. The boogeymen. They want you to be afraid. This endless war seems to have become acceptable in the eyes of most Americans. Justified, even. We’re a bunch of xenophobic racist know-nothings.
Sometimes, I just wish for the apocalypse to hit us, because then it would cull all the worthless, hateful consumers.
So enough about the rest of the world. Let’s talk about my world. I see no point in anything. We are hurtling toward cultural, political, and economic destruction. Resources are wearing thin. Overpopulation, famine, disease… How can I even have goals? We’re doomed.
I drink all the time, I smoke pot, I smoke cigs, I drink too much coffee. I just abuse myself in search of the next possibility of happiness, with drugs.
My roommates don’t clean up after themselves. I don’t ask them to because I am not assertive. People walk all over me. I just like being generous, but people take advantage of me. I don’t care enough about myself to stick up for myself. I avoid conflict, even arguments, or simple requests.
I am a nice guy. I’m a *****. I fear rejection, so I’m accommodating, I play it safe.
I haven’t had sex in five years. I jack off to weird fetishes which fill me with shame.
One negative emotion sends my day spiraling into a pity party, and I just lay on the floor and envision a bullet passing through my parietal bone, through both lobes, and out the other side. I’m lucky I don’t own a gun.
I don’t know what to do. I am concerned for humanity, but they are only concerned for themselves. My philosophies do not align with the modern world. I just want to riot. I want to burn down corporate headquarters, I want to kill Congress. I want to world to be turned upside down, because no one even realizes how dystopian the most idolized country in the world has become.
I haven’t cried since I was 11 or so. I bottle up my anger and let it out on inanimate objects. I broke my laptop the other day. I stabbed it.
Therapy isn’t helping. My therapists insights have already occurred to me without his help. Antidepressants didn’t do shit. We just talk for an hour, and I drive home feeling numb, and unchanged.
My mother has cancer. I can hardly even show sympathy. I feel like all my relationships are drifting away from me, and it is because of my perceived social isolation that these relationships are degenerating. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I don’t know how to dig myself out of this hole. Despite positive days, and taking steps toward living a healthier happier life, I can’t get my head out of this mire of negativity.
7 comments
Wouldnt it be great to be dumb even for just one day. We could just stumble around this world like other people enjoying their lives without even thinking of the doom that lies ahead of us.
You won’t be ignored here… I see that there is a lot going on in your world… and it can be overwhelming. Some of the situations you mention (such as society, politicians, corporations) are outside your realm of control. While a lot of us would like to change that, it’s difficult for one person to achieve that on their own. Perhaps it’s a good idea to focus on those situations taking place which you can control. If your relationships are drifiting and you’re becoming isolated, think about the events that lead up to that. What can you learn from that and do differently going forward. Can the friendships be rebuilt? You mentioned the positive days and your efforts to work toward a happier life… Keep moving forward. Set goals for yourself… and determine how to achieve them. Yes… It will take time… but time and a lot of effort will serve as a shovel to get you out of the hole. Now isn’t the time to give up. Catch your breath… and move forward.
I work for less then 2Cents and hour.
I have no father or mother.
I have a brain tumor that can kill me at any second.
I’m happy, but i’m forced to take anti-deppressentsss.
I’m the least attractive male in the world, never to be loved.
I work for less then 2Cents and hour.
I have no father or mother.
I have a brain tumor that can kill me at any second.
I’m happy, but i’m forced to take anti-deppressentsss.
I’m the least attractive male in the world, never to be loved.
Interesting, i think your just like everyother person on here who wasnt abused and doesnt have clinical depression, your too aware.
You see how shitty the we treat the world, how shitty we treat each other, how people can just ignore millions starving in africa. You, and most of us are unfortunitly not ignorant. And you hate the world around you because they are happy, because they are ignorant.
Once your eyes are opened the problems of the world they can never be closed. You just have to find a way to distract your self from those thoughts, i exercise like crazy and put my time into my work or reading or meditating. never giving myself a moment to contemplate how we are destroying our planet. Theres this great moment when im finished meditating and i slowly open my eyes and for a moment or two its like i know nothing, i care about nothing, im not happy or sad, i just am. Then the world comes crashing back. LOL. if only i could meditate all day long.
Aslo your post is a good read, you are a bit diluded about somethings thought, i am european and i cant tell you we do not idolise america, if anything we consider you all idoits, no offence, its just a silly sterotype, like irish people being drunks and english being football hooligans.
Also i if you havent watched sean penn’s “going into the wild” i suggest you do, you will really enjoy it, its a true story about an american chap just like you, who hates the world we live in and decides to do something about, seriously thought provoking movie, i suggest you check it out.
great post man.
Peace 🙂
being good-intentioned in a deceiftul society is a *****
but: just because you don’t care about yourself that much implies you have to let people walk over you .. fuck them .. if you don’t like the person in the mirror, do it out of pride at least .. are you truly a glutton for pain ?
I mean, you gotta have crumbles of pride left .. when someone starts annoying you, don’t stand there just being passive .. tell the person to leave you alone & if (s)he doesn’t get the message, be more rude about it .. sometimes, you can just leave while (s)he’s still talking
you aren’t here to be fooled by society, find joy in things the sheeple enjoy doing, gain people’s approval, be liked by them, play the social game etc => you’re on another level and playing a different game .. it’ll serve you more to think in this direction
be angry to the point you stab a laptop ? that’s fucked up & you know it
it’s people who have infused this anger in you with their ignorance and selfishness ..
you can always count on people to be people: self-absorbed users for the most
if you want to lose some of your frustration, I believe reducing their opportunities to fill you with more anger is a good start .. you don’t need more anger, who knows what this could lead you to do ?