Trying to be friends with an ex
Difficult
Distances a bit better
But in most cases
Difficult
That is why no one believes in being friends with an ex.
I thought my friendship with this one certain ex was different
but i realized we were distanced.
Person lived in another area while I was in another.
Thought our friendship was different.
But I guess I was wrong
Friendship was nothing but a great disaster
Once I heard what was really going on.
I flipped out. Thought there was a great trust. But now I guess not. I believe that in the past they were all lies. Nothing but lies. If that person really trusted me, person would have told me. Not years later. Finding out from another person. I went thru that most of my years. Why couldn’t person have told me? I told person most of everything only cuz I trusted that person. cuz I thought person was my best friend. A true best, good old friend. But I guess I was wrong. I guess I was a bad, terrible friend. After we broke up, (before we agreed on being friends) I just wanted person to be happy. Find someone there who make smile again. but what I believed in, person didn’t find that other person. I tried to push person away, but person was alway there. Time to time we spoke to each other. Time to time, I had to deal with my life. But I tried to be the friend I could be. After I came back home, (same city) I realized that I shouldn’t bug or annoy person. I did thought for a few times. It was pretty cool to have a conversation with person. but after a few more months, we had stopped. I guess I annoyed perosn with my own problems. And I distanced from person again. Dealing with my own problems by myself. A few more months passed by, started to call person again. and not after a few more weeks. I guess shit happens and I really annoyed person. Ever persons friends and family told me to move on. So that is what I am doing right now. Trying to move on.
3 comments
When an ex says “lets be friends,” it’s almost like a kidnapper saying “we’ll stay in touch.”
we always stayed in touch. its just when i came back. things changed.
I get along with an ex wife because we are so far from the relationship we had which was toxic at best, we have a 27 year old son together so speaking to her is usaully about him and cordial.
Are we friends, I would say just aquaintences.
I have been in about 10 relationships and numerous “trists”, I would say when I run into a former fling its just like “hey how ya doing” good, okay see next time have a great day.