please do not try to judge me, but thinking about it now, i don’t think a human being should even need friends.
i’m not saying they r a waste of time, but they aren’t “requiered” to live. Any man can live and be sane without having to interact with many other humans. actually, people need friends to one, know how to interact, two, keep up with news, or three, know what to be sane it.
but being sane isn’t of one quallity, besides the quality of being sane. sane can mean go along with killing millions of people who go by that religion and be normal. or sane could mean being able to imperilise the countinents over the world, in which is totures others in the process. \being sane can mean anything, it all depends on us.
so back to the topic of friendship, when you truly have this bond between others, will those others be able to give the same amount of trueness or respect as much as you do? of course, in having abond with some1, you expect nothing more from them, and only expect of the other person as being themselves, listens to you, or you could just have admiration and care for them.
so then y even can involved with them in the first place? or why even try to ask them about their own lives? or why should you even listen to their own problems? why listen to their unnessary information?
today, as an example, many people i’ve had known for a very long time, those who had been there for at least 2 years ago, not one, not one, had said hi to me in the hallways first. i had to apporache them to say hi, even though i was right in front of their eyes. and there were others who had apporached me only because he or she needed to ask of something that he had already tooken from me. whoa.
so….i can’t say much anymore. what do you think of friendship?
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on the problem of sanity, its really just conformity with the rest of society. to be sane is to agree with the group, and thats all it really means.
on the subject of your friends, look at what you know about them, are they the type of people to reach out to others, do they often greet people first, if not it my just be the to greet others.
just keep reaching out and youll eventually find something to hold on to.
good luck 🙂
I totally agree with you! Honestly, if no one had friends, I’d be so much better off. I wouldn’t have to pretend like I had friends, or that I don’t care when they (mentally) push me over. it hurts, and I don’t want to deal with it anymore…
Friends come and go but family is forever.