I have grown closer to my mom but she broke that bond yesterday when you yelled at me about my grades. I have a step-dad and I hate him, I know it is a strong word but he has made this family worse than it already is. My brother always puts me down and he always gets the highest preaise cause he is smarter and he get good grades, he is in 4th grade. This family means nothing to me anymore and the only person I really love is my grandma cause she loves me and she cares about me and she doesnt bring me down or make me feel like crap all the time. I have thought about killing myself to escape this family but it was break my grandmothers heart and I wouldnt want to hurt my grandmother. I am ready to grow up, and skip the part of being a teenager.
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um no offense but ur going to throw you and ur moms relationship away because she yelled at you over grades? what if she did it because she wants the best for you and wants you to exceed in life?
actually, i dont know you, so tell me about yourself
She just cares. Tell her how that hurt you and that you’re trying.
I care for u & that’s is regardless of your decision you will make to live or “skip out” on the rest of your life.
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You have to give adults a break. They have been around longer and they get used to thinking that the way they do things is always right.
Your mom just wants you to succeed and get good grades because she knows it will be important later in life. She may handle it in a way that hurts you, she may yell or scream because she thinks that’s a good way to communicate her message to you.
Try not to focus too much on HOW she says it, just try to look deeper and figure out WHAT she is trying to say.
She’d actually be a bad mom if she DIDN’T care about your grades. She does care. Try to see it as a positive.
It doesn’t hurt to try to talk to people and tell them the truth. Tell your mom that you understand she wants you to do good in school, but that yelling it at you just makes you feel worse about it.