she wouldn’t want you dead, i’m sure that she would want you to continue living, if its meant to be, then it’ll be. easier said then done, but still. there is someone out there for you
love likes to be life…… being a paradoxical illusion here something exists an energy yet when you say love doesnt exist the fault is in the wording bcuz words are concepts of the mind and only being and none being transcends the mind and its barriers which is now which is how it is without anything
So it has become clear that clarification is needed (and you people love to bash me for my verbose precision… see what happens when i simplify?)
Her love *For You, doesn’t exist. Yet, you speak of it as if it does. If it did, she would behave differently toward you, rather than abandonment and disregard.
Abandonment and Disregard, are evidence of Absence of love, not presence.
When i said “i knew what you were talking about…”
I knew you were talking about your ex. It was plainly obvious to me. That’s why you needed to know that the love you imagine she has for you, does not actually exist (whether it ever did, or was merely illusory).
It is entirely possible that “her love” does exist, but only for someone else, or only for various others, but not for you. This is the cold, harsh reality of “love.” All too often, it is not what people claim. Many people claim they love someone, when they actually do not. Sometimes it’s a mistake, sometimes it’s intentional manipulation. The only part you really need to think about, is that “her love for you” (being specific), is not truth. It does not exist (for you), and cannot save you, since it isn’t real or true.
I know exactly how much that sucks. The best you can do is allow yourself to accept this truth as quickly and thoroughly as possible, and try to get on with your life, before it causes you irrevocable deterioration, and ultimately “ruins” your life.
You need to get over it, dude. But when i say it, i’m not saying it in a dismissive or condescending manner; i’m saying it from the perspective that it will likely be one of the most difficult, and possibly most important, necessary things, you will ever do, in your entire life. If you can’t get over it, it will destroy you… probably gradually, slowly, miserably, agonizingly. Don’t let yourself be wrecked by that. Don’t let something that doesn’t even exist, beat you. Heal yourself, nourish yourself, keep yourself in best-possible condition. Preserve whatever someone else might appreciate about you; do this for yourself.
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Me too, I’m sorry that you feel this way also.
I can’t figure out the quickest way out of here. Her love can save me but she doesn’t care… It sucks to feel this way.
That which does not exist, cannot save us.
I was referring to my ex girl. Her love can save me.
she wouldn’t want you dead, i’m sure that she would want you to continue living, if its meant to be, then it’ll be. easier said then done, but still. there is someone out there for you
Her love doesn’t exist. Therefore, it can’t save you.
I knew what you were talking about, even better than you did.
love likes to be life…… being a paradoxical illusion here something exists an energy yet when you say love doesnt exist the fault is in the wording bcuz words are concepts of the mind and only being and none being transcends the mind and its barriers which is now which is how it is without anything
Ex girl’s love might not save you, aneuriscg, but loving others might. It’s a harsh world here in this life. I understand your pain.
So it has become clear that clarification is needed (and you people love to bash me for my verbose precision… see what happens when i simplify?)
Her love *For You, doesn’t exist. Yet, you speak of it as if it does. If it did, she would behave differently toward you, rather than abandonment and disregard.
Abandonment and Disregard, are evidence of Absence of love, not presence.
When i said “i knew what you were talking about…”
I knew you were talking about your ex. It was plainly obvious to me. That’s why you needed to know that the love you imagine she has for you, does not actually exist (whether it ever did, or was merely illusory).
It is entirely possible that “her love” does exist, but only for someone else, or only for various others, but not for you. This is the cold, harsh reality of “love.” All too often, it is not what people claim. Many people claim they love someone, when they actually do not. Sometimes it’s a mistake, sometimes it’s intentional manipulation. The only part you really need to think about, is that “her love for you” (being specific), is not truth. It does not exist (for you), and cannot save you, since it isn’t real or true.
I know exactly how much that sucks. The best you can do is allow yourself to accept this truth as quickly and thoroughly as possible, and try to get on with your life, before it causes you irrevocable deterioration, and ultimately “ruins” your life.
You need to get over it, dude. But when i say it, i’m not saying it in a dismissive or condescending manner; i’m saying it from the perspective that it will likely be one of the most difficult, and possibly most important, necessary things, you will ever do, in your entire life. If you can’t get over it, it will destroy you… probably gradually, slowly, miserably, agonizingly. Don’t let yourself be wrecked by that. Don’t let something that doesn’t even exist, beat you. Heal yourself, nourish yourself, keep yourself in best-possible condition. Preserve whatever someone else might appreciate about you; do this for yourself.