5/17/14

Would I be correct in assuming that some special person is your whole life and he/she betrayed you? Maybe others you told about it werent so sympathetic? It happened to me over 15 times. But im 55. I cant believe I lived thru 15 cold uncaring reactions to my wounds. But….when I think about it, I always told the same people expecting a different reaction…which makes me nuts, correct. -) And here is another thing I leaned as a coach and in 55 yrs of living. Hurting yourself or even killing yourself, often makes the other person or people feel justified in treating you like crap in the first place…”Oh see what so and so did. She was a nut job juts like I thought.” So…what happens is, by hurting yourself, you make these selfish cold people feel justified in treating you like crap. Im talking thru experience and listening to a lot of women I made friends with on dating sites in many 3rd world countries where men are almost supposed to treat women like crap. Im here if you need me.