have you guys a realized you have a fear of something or someone because of what they did to you….
well i do i have a fear of getting close to people because im scared they will leave me! it alway comes true and it scares me to death because…..im getting close to alot of people but the as soon as it starts to happen i stop myself because of my ex-gf and ex-bf i got close to them aND THEY BOTH LEFT ME AFTER WE BROKE UP AND BECAME FRIENDS THEY LEFT ME!IM DONE WITH REALTIONSHIPS FOR AWHILE!
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I was hurt in the most unimaginable way, it took me a long time to come to terms with. To trust again was my problem and I’ve learned that not everyone is the same. Believe me.
i have only got close to about three people now and i am not bout to get close to anybody elsse
seems about right. been there and done that. dont want to do it again.
yup i know its about right
I know what you mean. I also have the fear of people getting too close…because when that happens bad things follow. So either way I end up hurt haha.
Bah. That’s why I like cats better then people 😉
yeah i have ever since a fews ago when i got with my ex-gf i dont know what happened but after that my ex-bf hurt me bad
I agree there, after my last relationship failure i don’t let people get close anymore. But yeah, not all people are the same, but trusting again is really hard. I have to add tho, i’ve never seen a relationship last when it goes from love into a friendship, either they get back together or they break contact almost completely, so what you’re describing is fairly common.
i know thanks btw that means alot