I don’t know what love is anymore which also made me depressed partly because the only girl i would say i love since 4 years is in america (im in china). I had different things that made me emotionally crippled as i would say myself because i don’t know what love is anymore or better said i can’t really love anyone truly right now (same with hating someone). This also helped me to become sick of life and me trying to end it.. Ive tried it several ways one of them was an overdose of drugs..
If anyone could tell me what love is means or just give me an explanation of it id be thankful…
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What is Love?
Is it sex? is it a feeling? Is it how we treat another, how they treat us.
Is love a object, something that we can hold, measure, judge…
What if love isn’t a thing or a feeling but a way of being. A way of being in the world. Something that is never lost even in disappointment of loss.
I think what we feel we lose, what we morn when a relationship ends or changes isn’t the loss of love but the loss of witness. We long to have our lives witnessed and we long for the privilege of witnessing the life of another.
The reality is that sometimes we only get to witness a small part of someone life, as the witness small part of ours… But Love is not lost and just maybe is even more precious in the short span of time where we got to experience being seen and seeing…
Love that was experienced, was experienced! It was real in that moment why do we feel compelled to travel back through memory and hold on to something that can’t be held onto. the act of holding on actually destroying what was experienced!
You loved!
Now you wallow…
but you Loved!…
Why not celibate that you Loved!
Love is never lost we just stop seeing
thanks
“For General Jingwei!” -Chinese soldier in Anchorage, Alaska. Circa 2077.
I asked myself the same question not too long ago and I’ve come to realise that the answer was staring at me all along: you cannot fathom the sentiment of love if you’re not prepared to return it in kind. I understand now that I’ve never known the concept of love in its romantic form and quite frankly I never will. But that doesn’t phase me in the least.
You have to ask yourself what does love NOT mean, reference that, avoid any instances of ‘love’ which carry those markers and you should get along well enough.
thanks (funny thing actually since i live in china)
You have to realize tat you cant make somebody love you,
Others can be the catalyst from which we can learn to love ourselves. You’re enough.