So some of you may remember one of my earlier posts where I talked about my jogging group and this girl I talked to. Even though the first time it was pretty awkward, we had some nice conversations over the last few times. And she even smiles or laughs sometimes when I say something funny (at least when I say something, I don’t say a lot though). And sometimes she falls back or speeds up to run next to me even if we’re not saying anything. And she always smiles and says good bye after the jogging. I know I suck at interpreting those “signs” if they actually ARE signs. I could be just hallucinating and interpreting what she does in a way that I would like it to be. I really don’t have any experience at stuff like this. You even read everywhere that boys should respond to those “obvious signs”, but like I said I don’t even know if they are obvious.
Anyways, I will ask her out on Wednesday. At least I hope I will (I told myself that I will do it today, but I was too chicken to do it. F*** me). I’m just writing this hoping that it will actually make me do it next time. Wish me luck, this could be my shot at happiness, finally!
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Hmmm…
BE YOURSELF. That’s the only advice i can give, because people are different, and like different things. It’s always best to find someone who likes who you really are, so that you never have to try to be someone else in order to keep them interested. Plus, there’s the benefit of feeling like a person really likes you, because you’re really being you, instead of adjusting for what you think they want to see.
And if it doesn’t work out, it’s okay because you wouldn’t want to be with someone who requires you to wear a mask all the time anyway.
Just relax and let the feelings flow through you; smile if you’re happy, furrow your brow if you’re confused or displeased, laugh if something’s funny… but don’t expect anything.
Give her a fair chance, and perhaps she will reciprocate that. If she’s not willing to give you a fair chance, that’s really not yours to worry about. After all, you’re looking for someone who wants to give you a fair chance, and if she doesn’t pass that test, she’s not what you want, no matter how much you like whatever you may like about her.
Alternatively, if you’re just trying to “score,” you might want to start reading up on “PUA” tactics.
Your going to ask a girl out while on me?? ..(a rimshot and cymbal crash…… a lone cricket chirps) Viewings for that joke will be held Wednesday morning, donations for the burial cost are welcome.
All “jokes” aside Wednesday is a great day for anything (:
Someone should make a small portable device for the sole purpose of making those “badum tch!” sounds… so that every time someone makes a bad joke, you can press a button and hear “badum-tch!” followed by an awkwardly cricket-chirp-filled silence. If you could accomplish this with a straight face, it would be awesome.
http://www.badumtss.net/
Ahhhhahahaha…
I’m surprised someone hasn’t already made such a device. I could really use one the next time I’m invited to a comedy club. Most comedy clubs I’ve been to has a two drink minimum, to try and loosen you up and force you to be jolly, but no matter how tipsy I am when someone’s not funny I’m not going to laugh and when you don’t laugh at a comedy club you become a target.
A portable drum machine with a rimshot sound would come in handy when your the target of a bad joke!!!
Hey Wednesday i’m tuseday
where is Thursday at
you suicidal about jogging and thinking she like been friendly but there are a lot of fish and I bet one will like you
Hi Tuseday
We should hook up with Thursday and Friday and have a sundae (rimshot and cymbal crash….. that same lonely ass cricket chirps) viewings for that joke will be held Wednesday afternoon after the funeral services of my first joke. As always donations for the burial costs are welcome.
Good luck, and yes, be yourself, as clevername said. Don’t be afraid to be yourself because if she truly likes you she has to like YOU and not an artificial you.
Keep us updated!
In some cultures if a girl speeds up or slows down to run next to you in a jogging group, you’re practically married.
lol…
And in some cultures, if you speed up or slow down to run next to a girl, you’re practically a rapistalker (rapist+stalker)… especially if there’s no jogging group.
Plot twist: Girl is taking part in depression jogging group because she is a sex offender. GG
My parents walked in a circle anticlockwise once and they were declared married by a man waving a feather duster.
She’s a sex offender? SCORE!
Er, or not. Depends on what the context is.
@ ClairDeLune It will be very difficult for her to find anyone better than you. You’re a very special man.
Thanks, that means a lot to me.