Last year I was best friends with this girl. When something was wrong she was the first person I called to talk to. Over the Summer her ex started liking me. We got into a huge fight over it and now she hates me. I’ve tried so many times to be her friend again but it never works. When I’m nice to her she ends up spreading rumors. And now she’s talking to her ex again who started rumors about her. Why do I miss her like crazy? I don’t get this. It’s so confusing.
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Well its natural to miss a friend if you once bonded and now its gone sour. But that is just something that happens in life. When it comes to love and relationships… a friendship can be disconnected if one friend thinks the other friend is messing up their love life. Even if that friend didnt do anything to provoke it.
People dont like it when a person they crush after goes after or even just likes one of their friends.
that kind of stuff does in fact cause problems in friendships.
There really isnt much you can do at this point. If you have tried to patch it up to her and she just gets mad at you then you just pretty much have to come to the conclusion that that friendship is probably over now. I would just move on.
Stay clear from her and stay clear of that guy. the X etc
You pretty much have to move on.
You will make other friends in life.
She will make other friends in life.
She knew he was “in love” with me before they dated though..
People tend to show their better sides when you are just getting to know them. Then we get excited because we have met someone who is super nice and such fun and we think they are amazing! And we feel lucky to have them in our lives and start to get attached. Then the weeks have turned to months and we start to see the true person. And we get hurt but keep them in our lives ( or try to) cause we remember who they were and how wonderful it was. Only who they were doesn’t exist. My point is that takes a very long time to get to really know someone. If this girl is treating you badly then she isn’t the girl you thought she was. It still hurts but try to let go if you can. I hope you meet a better friend soon. Someone who treats you well always.
Thank you and she isn’t who I thought she was…