i am 22 year old boy, i just screw all thing. i screw my graduation and now i am not able to get any job. my gf is a DBA and she is forcing me all time that she do not want to live with me if i have no job in future. i am depress , i love her but she don’t because i don’t have money and job. i think i have no right to make GF. i am very innocent i just hurt when she look other guy with awesome car and she respect those guy and disrespect me because of money. almost i cry all night thinking what i did do wrong i just want a good life partner except this i don’t want anything but i think i have no right to have a partner without a money.I God please give me a gift of death.
Apologies me, English is not my native language.
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Sounds like maybe you need to live without being tied to a GF until you figure out your path in life. Finding your path is hard work, you need to stay committed and you don’t need someone forcing you into the wrong path or work. You’ll only wind up resenting that person. Relax..stay strong..find your correct job. Don’t worry about a “life partner”. That’ll come in time.
I am trying to stay strong but when i am alone in my room then i cry, i never cry in front of other. i just want to finish all these thing.i just want to know if i leave her so may i be a bad person?
Listen, those people with nice cars have worked for it some way or another, they are not free. This is what you need to do FIRST, she will love you more for this than if you just had a nice car, because you WILL have a nice car if you follow the correct steps. You need to find a passionate job/career.. and if you do have one, well you gotta learn to make more money out of it, like doing some side businesses. Just dont get yourself into a ton of debt getting the car of your dream, unless you can totally afford it. Also, you love this girl and she loves you.. man.. I needed that at your age.. so bad.. because at 18.. i got involved in doing some drugs.. and thats all it took to alter my mind and destroy my life.. i lost ambition and intelligence which led me down a dark road of dropping out of college, shitty jobs, no girlfriends and debt with cars I didnt like. Dude, 12 years have gone by.. and I lived a miserable life because of the mistakes I made at your age, I was raised great with a loving family andeverything I needed, but drugs destroyed it all, sure I am trying to salvage what I have left.. but i am 31 with a lifetime of regrets, not 21… not everyone has a happy story.. so, all i can say is, dont do drugs or binge drink.. if you smoke cigarettes or dope quit them, they will keep you broke, focus on a career, go back to school.. you HAVE to, you NEED money to survive thus you might as well enjoy making that money.
The biggest motivator you have IS your girlfriend, which is a blessing.. shes all you need.. now make her proud and get a great career on the go dude..
English is not your native language, where you from?
I am from india, thank you buddy, you know i just cry many night .. i was started smoking and yes little bit drug addicted. i was demotivated all time that i am far behind then other. i just need some good word’s from other which make me motivated or else i was thinking that what a and peace full life after death. i really don’t want to die but i just think that graveyard is a peaceful place where i just want to sleep so long.
I live in Canada.. and i know this country is so amazing it is, but demons are here as well.. and i got caught. The reason is, I didnt handle my business.. and let it all bottle up. Now its exploded.. that is what you need to avoid. Smokes and drugs not only cost money and keep you broke, they make your body and mind weak to solve the problems. Everyone in the world has problems, its how they handle it. Your problem i see is money and a job. if you dont focus on getting a job days and months will go by and your problem will worsen.. as mine has. I am giving you an example of me, a person who only got worse and worse BECAUSE i didnt handle my problems before more emerged.. so that should be your number 1 focus, getting a good job and loving your gf.
What drugs have you done? mine was weed and xtc.. they altered my course in life.. to a dark and miserable life. Are you religious? do you believe in god?
Yes i believe in God, i have no people who give me good thought. the only thing i have is pressure from all side. thank you so much buddy for making my focus. I just need a good word’s from other so that it give me some strength to fight my problem.
ank, love does not depend on fancy cars and lots of money. that kind of love is shallow and not long lasting. true love is a commitment,a bonding. ajoining togeather to work through lifes joys and miserys togeather, a trust in knowing that they are their. the worlds defination of love is wrong. true love does not care what you look like, how much money you have, what car you drive, what sex you are or what sex you prefer. true love recognizes the energies of another and will respond to it irregardless of social status and material wealth. dont worry about love. you are young. work on you and the things you want to improve in you. do those things you want to do and learn those thing you want to learn. their is plenty of time for love. their is no need to rush it. death is always here with us. no need to rush that either. peace to ya, bro