Hi. I am currently a sophomore in high school, and honestly, I feel like a loser. I don’t have many friends, but the ones that I do have are very nice to me. I am very socially awkward and introverted. I don’t share the interests of most of the people who are my age. Only one boy has ever asked me out. I feel like I’m too ugly and weird to ever get a boyfriend, or even have a lot of friends. I’m very scared for university, to be honest. I don’t like parties, and I feel like I am going to get judged a lot for that.
P.S.- My MBTI personality type (Myers Briggs) is INFP. Can you share what yours is? Thanks 🙂
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Women have it so much easier than men to get a partner
I could have wrote this at your age. Well, I went through all high school without ever having a girlfriend and didn’t go to prom or anything like that because of it, but I had a couple close friends and have never liked parties and such and I’ve always been socially awkward and introverted just like you.
My life isn’t really a good example I guess, and I hope yours turns out better.
I guess what I’m trying to say is to be yourself. The woman I have an interest in is interesting to me precisely because she is different. She is uniquely herself and that makes her a bright little flower in a world of grey to me. I just don’t have the courage or the gall to do anything about it.
So, be weird. Be yourself. Have your own interests. Being different can be more attractive to a guy than being like all the other girls.
I used to know what I was for the Meyer-Briggs personality thing but I don’t recall right now. Sorry.
Thanks for the replies 🙂
Have a nice weekend and be safe