to ryder and uwillnever….

I want to make something really clear to everyone. You emailed me and outright told me you had used these young men’s usernames and emails to find their facebooks and that you emailed their moms. When I told you I found that appalling your response to say fuck you. At that point, as you were obviously not willing to have a mature discussion, I discussed this issue of violating peoples privacy with several long term users on this site. All of us agreed that this was a serious security issue and I should do several things. One, leave a post on SP warning users about you and the security issues. Two, email admin explaining what you had done. And three, try to contact the guys you did this too. I did all three. Admin emailed me later saying as he planned on dealing with you himself he was removing my post, that because you had violated privacy here admin would have to change the site so we could no longer edit comments and see emails for people. He advised me they would discuss as well adding a warning to the register area that says people can look up your usernames through google so be cautious what you use. YOU caused this trouble.

Then you send me an email saying you hadn’t been specific about you told their moms but you had directed them towards SP. Totally changing your story. However, it was still a violation of privacy, it was morally wrong, and it could have had horrendous consequences. Now you post this saying you had lied to me about both your stories. You had not, in fact, emailed their moms.

Meantime, you are emailing me through all of this calling me a stupid *****. I don’t know why you have continued to email me. I haven’t answered them nor do I intend too. And what is with calling me names and trying to insult me? Your opinion would have to matter to me in order for your words to hurt. And your opinion doesn’t matter to me because YOU do not matter to me. And I find it interesting that you write this post and act all apologetic and nice while, at the same time, emailing me spewing filth because I let these boys know what you had done.

What matters to me is the members on this site feel safe. That they know you are a liar. That you did indeed research at least 2 users and trace them to their facebooks and whether you emailed their parents or not, you certainly considered it.

You have also told people on this site to go ahead with their suicide plans. You have used derogatory terms and have insulted people here.

It is people like you that this site doesn’t need. You have caused fear, worry, stress, sadness, disappointment and anger among several users. It is a suicide forum. If you cannot be a decent person here then you shouldn’t be here. None of us here need your lies, rudeness or threats.