I’m so selfish, that I even alienate people online as I do in the real world. Irony. I will admit I tried online dating, and I failed miserably. Haha what a joke I am. Can’t even get a date online. Oh the irony is killing me.
I get that, some times I think I ask too much of people and I’m starting to realize people only have a finite ability to give a shit about anything outside themselves. I’ve exhausted most people’s shit giving quota.
Online dating is much less successful than most people realize-chances of finding a match are 1-3%…meaning most people tend to have terrible luck with online dating unless they’re sluts with no standards.
Basically I’ve found with online dating is that the people you want don’t want you and those that want you, you don’t want. Also I’ve had better luck finding far more attractive girls who were interested in me IRL than online-thank god for that, otherwise I’d have no hope in the world.
In my case I don’t get out as much as I used to so I don’t meet new people. Which is why I’m single at the moment. I have other things to still sort out, like upgrading my job, moving in a few months and so forth….if I had more free time (or the right hours) I could get out there and find someone or many girls….just don’t have the time in my shitty schedule.
Alienating people. I hear ya. I do that too, so, I can relate about alienate and you can’t find a date. Maybe that’s great and time to just sit back and wait. Ya don’t want to rush in and populate and find yourself outside the gate, which is a place you’re already at and hate. Anyway, don’t call yourself Kate and try not to masturbate then irony will subside, you’ll find you’ll reside in what you take equals the love you make.
Newname, you described exactly what it was like for me, to the dot. Plus I don’t have much time to get out and meet people, my job takes me to sea for months at a time, stopping at different ports every once in a while. I’m looking for a lady who could handle that, and not many are willing to make such a sacrafice and I honestly cannot blame them.
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I get that, some times I think I ask too much of people and I’m starting to realize people only have a finite ability to give a shit about anything outside themselves. I’ve exhausted most people’s shit giving quota.
I’m going to sound like an ass and I apologize but you might need to go lone wolf for a while once you learn to live without love, love will find you
Love is everywhere, it’s not possible to live without it, it’s like living without air. Romantic live and friendships are a different animal.
Online dating is much less successful than most people realize-chances of finding a match are 1-3%…meaning most people tend to have terrible luck with online dating unless they’re sluts with no standards.
Basically I’ve found with online dating is that the people you want don’t want you and those that want you, you don’t want. Also I’ve had better luck finding far more attractive girls who were interested in me IRL than online-thank god for that, otherwise I’d have no hope in the world.
In my case I don’t get out as much as I used to so I don’t meet new people. Which is why I’m single at the moment. I have other things to still sort out, like upgrading my job, moving in a few months and so forth….if I had more free time (or the right hours) I could get out there and find someone or many girls….just don’t have the time in my shitty schedule.
Alienating people. I hear ya. I do that too, so, I can relate about alienate and you can’t find a date. Maybe that’s great and time to just sit back and wait. Ya don’t want to rush in and populate and find yourself outside the gate, which is a place you’re already at and hate. Anyway, don’t call yourself Kate and try not to masturbate then irony will subside, you’ll find you’ll reside in what you take equals the love you make.
Newname, you described exactly what it was like for me, to the dot. Plus I don’t have much time to get out and meet people, my job takes me to sea for months at a time, stopping at different ports every once in a while. I’m looking for a lady who could handle that, and not many are willing to make such a sacrafice and I honestly cannot blame them.