I am married, have 2kids, working, I just can’t manage any thing in my life I feel like I fell in a big hole that I can’t get out of it and my husband dome times supports me and most of times not, he is a destructive person always want me to do what he wants immediately without thinking we are not getting along these days my life with is always ups and downs we are in down state always argue about every thing (cleaning, washing dishes, doing laundry, doing homework with my son, my kids hygiene and so many other things) he helps me some his job is some how flexible than mine so he finishes earlier than me and he brings kids from nursery and set with them until I come home then he do nothing I should do every thing else because he is the man and he is so tired from working day….what about me? You are the woman all women in the world do what you do!!!! He helps me some times I don’t want to deny that but when he helps me always always says see I am helping now (his grateful is helping me) I am sick of him and I am sick of my life and there is so many things else happens that I will mention in another post some day
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I think these are common problems for married couples. I’d suggest getting organized…create a plan where everyone knows their duties and when. I’m sure he makes the same complaints and thinks he does all the work.
I see this in my siblings marriages too. But it’s best work together, rather than hate each other. I’d be easier for either partner to leave and be free of it. However as the kids get older, they’ll be more independent and require less help. Best to work as a team-ugh I must sound like Dear Abbey or something.