Is it wrong to born Gay?

I’m probably one of the straightest pro gay rights person you can meet. The reason for my viewpoint is because I put down the bible, and basically started reading biology and science. Homosexuality, also observed in other animals, is a natural and harmless occurrence that starts in the womb and effects about 1 out of every 10 people. It has to do with hormonal development. For someone to change there sexual orientation makes as much sense as someone changing there ethnicity. Before something has to be wrong, there has to be negative consequences that comes with it. The only negative consequences I see are when people are anti-gay and persecute homosexuals. This leads to many suicides. I know a homosexual couple that’s been in a healthy relationship for 30 years. I also know straight couples that have very unhealthy relationships, and visa versa.

My good late friend Joe was gay, he committed suicide in 2009. He was scared of being judged by God and tried to play straight for awhile until he became honest with me, I told him “if there is a god, then he’s suppose to love you more than your parents do right”? He said right. And I said “your parents wouldn’t send you to hell for eternity would they”? He started crying and said it made so much sense what I said. He grew up in the Mormon church that hates gays. But what I said seemed to have a huge impact on him. The reason he committed suicide was because he became addicted to pills because of his fibromyalgia. I’m not sure if his sexual orientation played a part in it or not, but he seemed to be feeling better about it towards the end of his life.

All the studies say that homosexual couples can live just as healthy lives as straight couples and things like gay adoption does not effect a child negatively nor does it “turn them gay”. Choosing to be gay would be counterintuitive anyway, especially in a world where gays are unfortunately looked down upon. Makes me wonder if the more anti gay someone is, the more secretly homosexual they really are. Nobody could convince me to have a gay relationship because I’m not wired to like it personally.

It always baffles me that right wing religious people always bash gays, and not rapist and pedophiles. Seriously, when was the last time you seen a televangelist or right wing commentator/politician talk about getting tough on pedophiles and rapists?