Why are boys so stupid? For all the guys reading this, I would love for you to explain it to me. I have possibly fallen head over heels for someone, and they have no clue. They don’t even like to talk to me. Maybe I’m the stupid one. Eh, it’s probably him. Anyone, if anyone has an idea why they are so dangerously stupid, I would so like to hear it. Thanks for your totally not suicidal related help. Sorry for this post, it will probably be deleted in a little while.
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Depending on your age guys think with their dicks not all are stupid not all are bastard’s just the one you fell for is
Stupid isn’t the same thing as oblivious – a lot of oblivious dolts are actually nuclear physicists, or will become nuclear physicists in the future. They just don’t understand other people, maybe. When dealing with oblivious guys, if you’re a girl trying to get their attention, the best way to do it is to walk up to them, smack them with a book or something, and say, “Hey! How long do I have to make flirty eyes with you before you offer to take me out sometime? Don’t be a jerk.”
Yeah, sounds about able right.
How is he meant to know you like him?
“They don’t even like to talk to me.”? Guess he doesn’t feel the way you do, end of story.
Well assuming that he’d be interested in you, the direct approach would be best. Yes we guys really are that stupid sometimes and don’t pick up on subtle cues that girls like us. At the same times, we also get many false positives, where we think a girl is flirting/likes us but then really doesn’t…or she just changes her mind for some reason.
Reminds me of this beautiful blond girl I got to know in university-she used to stare at me constantly during one of my classes. Finally I spoke with her-we hung out a few times became friends, then she told me that she has a boyfriend, but then went back to staring at me in class again-I just started ignoring her. I wish I called her out on her staring-but maybe it was her own ego, she probably wanted to know if I liked her and that was the notch on her belt.
Id have to say > this person is not stupid at all. They are Just unaware that you like him.
A lot of guys (young guys especially) have low self esteem when it comes to girls and they are just oblivious to the fact. You have to make it clear. Write a letter and just give it to him. Let him know clearly that you like him etc etc that you’d like to get together.
If you do that he will probably respond.
We is not real brite but we can lift hevvy fings.