Why does killing yourself have to be so hard? I mean methods. They’re so much work and I’m so tired anyway. Shouldn’t I have the right to die quickly and painlessly if I want to? Why does anyone else have the right to force me to stay alive? Why is every decision except this one considered sacred and inviolable? I’m allowed to do anything with my life besides end it. Why are DNRs only acceptable for some illnesses and not others?
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Easy to do, quick acting, painless. Choose any two. That seems to be the way most things in the world work.
I just got finished drafting my dad’s and stepmom’s DNR. For what I’ve read there are no limitations on who can have them. But you have to follow the guidelines for your state. Are you non-US?
What’s DNR? ‘Do Not Resuscitate’?
That is soooooo Suicide Project.
@See Smith; You need to join the band.
Play the kazoo if you want.
C’mon. We’ll meet hens.
Also called Advanced Medical Directive, Healthcare Proxy, and in Louisiana: Death Wish List.
Of you’re in Canada a DNR (do not resuscitate) will not be honoured unless it is an official form, signed by your attending physician (or qualifying party). The form is registered. DNRs in Canada are basically intended for individuals who are terminal with little-to-no-chance-of-recovery hence why it has to be signed by a qualifying party. They are registered in a central database (not sure if the database is provincial or federal) that can be retrieved by the hospital. Who knows, maybe your health card is flagged with the DNR?
Self-made DNRs aren’t recognized, at least from what I understand. Not in Canada at least. I would assume due to the potential legal ramifications. The official DNR probably isn’t fool proof either as people make mistakes. There’s a lot of people out there that don’t understand another person’s desire to live, no different than your non-understanding (perhaps) of another’s desire to live as long as possible, this last one is something that boggles my mind. Why would someone want to live for as long as possible?! It boggles my mind.
As for your right to die whenever you want to… I fully agree. There was a time in history that suicide was accepted, ancient Greeks for example could ask their local magistrate for a toxic potion which was kept under lock. I believe the concoction was hemlock. Suicide was acceptable. Over time with the entrance of religion and the Laws of Morality (Christianity for example) the view shifted from being acceptable to being a violation of “the natural order” and going against “gods plan”. Things are gradually shifting away from the Laws of Morality with the introduction of Right to Die legislations around the world. Canada’s Supreme Court has ruled in favour of Canadian’s right to die and mandated our government to forge news laws as such. These laws were supposed to be finalised for February 2016 but they might be delayed. I digress. Regardless, the view is shifting but ones choice remains elusive still unless one qualifies under the laws governing such.
Well that is very interesting. Having a database is a good idea.
The state of Tennessee recently passed a new law for Advanced Healthcare Directives. A series of yes/no questions (Would you like _____, if you are ______.) A section about what to do with the body. Contact names and numbers. Grab two witnesses and you are done. The worst part was the 50 places you had to initial.
Yes, it is easier to research and prepare when you are not depressed and/or not actively suicidal.
The law should respect every individual’s choice, but we will probably never see laws without significant restrictions. Despite the tendency to romanticize the past, restrictions on human behavior, including the act of suicide, have always existed, all over the world, all throughout history, in both secular and religious laws.
In my opinion, keeping someone alive artificially against their wishes is extremely cruel.
Wanted to add: comment above pointed out Western laws are moving towards more freedom of individual choice concerning a person’s right to die. That is true, I just believe that strong restrictions will remain in place. And I hope we don’t cross the line into governments declaring people defective and ordering their execution. This has happened, and the push to criminalize “the mentally ill” is worrisome.
I hear being crushed by a tree during a windstorm is pretty quick and painless. Unless of course you end up like that guy who just got turned into a quadrapalegic instead when it fell on him. That’s probably my biggest fear, becoming paralyzed and then never being able to control the choice anymore, cause then you’d have to rely on other people.
Honestly not even worried about the pain anymore, there’s no painless ways, just want it to be successful if I ever do go threw with it.
Stabbing myself been running threw my mind