Losing friends

That’s a textbook case of a girl friend-zoning you and using you as the shoulder to cry on. Which might’ve been somewhat ok if she at least remembered how much you’ve been there for her and cared for her.

People are predictable and they follow the same patterns over and over, so in time she will have another fight with this guy again, be used by him again and she’ll come running back to you once that happens.

Have some spine and don’t ever be there for her again. If I were you, I’d completely cut her off. Respect is a two-way street and if someone doesn’t show you any, stop giving it to them.

I’ve dealt with users, ingrates and backstabbers all my life and learned my lesson. I was once the nicest person you’d have known. Now I’m much more of an asshole and I’m very picky with who I help. I also make sure to hit back twice as hard if anyone does me wrong. And it feels good-I might lose relationships but actually I never lost anything because they were never my friend to begin with-a true friend wouldn’t betray or use you and then leave you when they got what they wanted.

I understand as well that you don’t have close friends/that’s something you should work on. Remember it takes time to build relationships and especially trust. You need to be fun/outgoing for people to like you…then you’ll get trustworthy friends. If you’re in a tough bind, then just use the people around you, till you can find better ones.