Well yesterday was a good day… a lot of things were starting to fix themselves or at least thats how it felt. And yet… I am feeling so incredibly lonely…it’s as if I could go crazy if I don’t have someone to talk to.
but I am feeling so alienated… as if I were talking to people that lived in a parallel dimension, somehow I never reach no one. I feel rejected all the time.
I need people around me, and that’s so hard to achieve, because everyone is busy living their own lives, and I don’t want to live mine
I wanna stop feeling lonely…
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I would be glad to listen to your storys. I mean it.
The loneliness is common/normal. The people busy with their lives probably have bouts of loneliness too. Have you looked into any groups or clubs? Not sure about down there, but up here there’s bowling leagues, billiard leagues, disc golf clubs etc. Something to get out and just be part of something.
I will try to find a rolling skating club, I would love to learn how to skate.
I’ll try this
Thanx Alan :*
Now that you mention it, I am downloading meetup
Make a post on CL in the looking for friends section and try to meet some people in your area. I have done that and it always works out well.
That’s never worked for me. Always creepers looking for strictly platonic bjs
“creepers looking for strictly platonic bjs”
I died.
Hahahaha
Lol @ the bjs thing. Ive contacted animal shelters about volunteering. Im in a new state so i know literally no new people.
Great idea. Also for picking up women…
Done that, nice people there, that’s why we have so many pets at home
You DO? I didn’t know that!
Two pitbulls, one boxer, three cats, living in my mother’s house 🙂
I get to see them once a week
But my brothers have the monopoly of their attention (dogs love boys)
DmLiving find a pitbull and you won’t need to meet no one else, they are the best beings ever.
(I can’t have one right now :/ but there are two in my family) so if you can, you will see what I am telling you
Okay you scared me 🙂
Hahaha Mus, you got to have one too, you will fall in love with her (let’s say it’s a female) and you’ll see they will protect you even from axes. 🙂
And mood changes
I sort of know what you mean. They do look cute. And scary. 🙂
How did you meet the people you know now?
I remember going to a festival some years ago and working in a sandwich stall. I met so many people that way, mostly just colleagues.
I think Ayo Tecnology’s advice is good. Join a group or a club. Or come visit me. I could do with someone to hang out with.
At college… great people all of them…
And yeah I may take thee by thy word, maybe some day I can save enough money to walk all over Denmark and find you 🙂
Or I can skate my way there…. mmmm I must consider it well, half way on a plane, half way rolling 🙂
So awesome. Now I can only think of you as Rollergirl.
Hahaha that sounds nice ‘rollergirl’. I’ll try and buy those skates tomorrow
Sweet!
Animal shelter FTW
But will I fit in their cages?
Well, after school, as numbers dwindled, I picked up friends from work, as those flames burnt out, I’ve sought few ways. Until I found a site of people dying for friend. Rest easy, I’m here.
🙂
Yeah, it sounds like a nice place.
And I am here too 🙂
Hey Moneypenny. Sorry you’re feeling lonely. I know the feeling well and it sucks. I use http://www.meetup.com. I’ve been a member for quite some time now and I’ve made some really good friends and met guys to date too. Not sure where you live but I think it’s everywhere. I live in NY but my friend used it when she was moving from city to city down south and she had good experiences as well. You just type in your interests and you find groups to join. Mostly everyone shows up alone so it’s really easy to meet people. Google it. It can’t hurt. Hugs.