I am crazy in love with this guy, but we havent talked in a while.i have been in love with him since i was like 12 and ive never stopped loving him, i am 19 btw. he is in my mind all day and all night i dont know how to tell him, im afraid that im not good enough for him. im terrified that i might get hurt. but i dont think i could live without him. i dont think ill even stop loving him. no matter what other guys are in my life i cant seem to forget about him. what do i do? do i tell him? im scared but i dont want to be, i want to tell him, i want him to know but im so terrified.
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Do you know him well? If not, it’s possible you’re ‘in love’ with a fantasy your mind created – you’ve dated other men but not him, so you keep going back to him and wondering “what if.” If you did date him, you might think he was great, or you might find out he’s not what you were expecting.
I wouldn’t come out to him with “OMG I love you and think of you constantly,” but it might be worth asking if he wants to go on a date. Just try not to raise your expectations so high, he’s human like everyone else, he has flaws that would annoy you, aside from his positive traits. It all depends on how compatible the two of you are, and if you’re not compatible, at least now you’ll know, and you won’t have to dream about him anymore, heh.