So I have another decision to make …..to stay in lake tahoe..or..go back to park city utah… ether way I’m stayinf four months. I hated my life when I was in Utah but I will be away from my in laws for a few months or so and I’l be out lake tahoe were I see my life going no were.
Down sides ccomplete seclusion , crappy food. nothing to do but work and It will be just me and my husband .
Also after this four months my life will be up in the air MY husband dose not want to move back to Chicago ever . that also mean I get a sweet taste of feedom and then what I move back in with my inlaws . I cant do that today my mother in laws said I fucked up so manny times just listen to her and I will be happy . while add I like to suffer and destroy her aons life and make mines harder. ……um what miss your the one regeting your choice to move here .
What should I do ?
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I don’t know. There’s a thing where you flip a coin. So, heads you stay in Tahoe and tails you go to Utah. You make a firm decision that you’ll do whatever the coin toss comes up. This is it. This’ll be your choice.
Now…flip the coin in the air.
Before the coin even lands you’ll find yourself rooting for one side over the other. There’s your decision. Whatever side you find yourself rooting for.
Good luck
@ Randall Thanks you good idea ..
Randall, i like that analogy i think i’m going to steal it!! very wise!!!!
Which place do you think you’d be more comfortable with? If you think change might help and give you breathing space, it might be best to move. Or is staying in a more familiar environment (ie where you are now) less daunting than leaving for Utah?
Utah is more familiar I lived there for two winters lake tahoe is foreign area
I’d go for a change of environment myself but its easier said than done depending on how you’re feeling. I think the coin idea is brilliant though, I hope it can help you decide
If Utah is more familiar and you can get away from your in-laws as you say, what is the downside of going to Utah? Besides the anxiety of moving, I mean.
Complet seclusion